追星丧父谁之过

——我看杨丽鹃追星事件

——I see the star chasing event of Yang Lijuan

其实我从06年就知道这件事了，当时仅仅觉得杨丽鹃过于疯狂。而在今年的三月二十七日，我又听到了杨父在杨丽鹃见到刘德华之后跳海自杀。出现这样的悲剧，谁之过？

In fact, I have known this since 2006, when I just thought Yang Lijuan was crazy. On March 27 of this year, I heard Yang Fu commit suicide in the sea after Yang Lijuan saw Liu Dehua. Who is to blame for such a tragedy?

虽然杨丽鹃及其母，还有其死去的父亲都将这悲剧的原因归结于刘德华，但是我认为最重要的原因是杨丽鹃的自私和不理智。

Although Yang Lijuan and her mother, as well as her dead father, attribute the tragedy to Liu Dehua, I think the most important reason is Yang's selfishness and irrationality.

杨丽鹃追刘德华十三年，初中毕业之后就没有去上学，浪费了宝贵的青春年华。而这原因就是杨的一个梦。她梦到刘和其握手等，就认为刘会想着她，为刘浪费十余载光阴。这真是可悲！梦仅仅是幻觉，怎么能当真？追星十三年，就没有想过这个梦将她玩弄于股掌之间十三年？！用自己不真实的梦支配自己的行动，倾家荡产，没有任何意义！！

Yang Lijuan pursued Liu Dehua for 13 years. After graduating from junior high school, she didn't go to school, wasting her precious youth. And this is a dream of Yang. She dreamt that Liu would shake hands with him and so on. She thought Liu would think of her and spend more than ten years for Liu Lang. What a pity! Dreams are just illusions. How can we take them seriously? After 13 years of star chasing, I didn't think this dream would play with her for 13 years?! Using your own unreal dream to control your actions, to lose your money, has no meaning!!

杨说自己只为见刘一面，之后就过自己的生活。可是她见了刘N面，依旧要追他！为什么？自己的自私！她只为自己的私欲，不管不顾父母！在06年杨参加了刘的演唱会，并且是VIP门票，已经够近了吧，可是她并不满意。她还要再见刘。这个时候，她的父母都怎么样了？她的母亲在病床上！他的父亲在外饿肚子！她拿着借来的五千块钱去买门票，置父母的死活于不过！多么自私。也许这对父母是爱孩子的，一切都满足。但是这也滋养了她的自私！杨想着刘会安排一个小时的谈话。可悲！！我相信刘永远不会夸奖杨的。杨用这种极端的方式，给自己的父母造成伤害，不肖啊！

Yang said he only wanted to see Liu once and then live his own life. But she saw Liu n face, still want to chase him! Why? Selfishness! She is only for her own selfish desires, regardless of her parents! In 2006, Yang attended Liu's concert, and it was a VIP ticket. It was close enough, but she was not satisfied. She wants to see Liu again. How are her parents at this time? Her mother is in bed! His father is out hungry! She took the five thousand yuan borrowed to buy the tickets, which killed her parents! How selfish. Maybe the parents love their children and everything is satisfied. But it also nourishes her selfishness! Yang thought Liu would arrange an hour's talk. Pathetic! I believe Liu will never praise Yang. Yang uses this extreme way to hurt his parents. It's not good!

今年的三月二十五日杨父跳海自杀，这个原因，我想并不是杨父认为刘做得过分，而是想用这种手段制造舆论，使刘见杨一面。前两次来港均没见到刘，杨父怕自己的女儿再次落空希望，用此方法。可怜天下父母心啊！

On March 25 this year, Yang Fu committed suicide by jumping into the sea. I don't think that Yang Fu thought Liu had done too much, but that he wanted to use this method to create public opinion and make Liu see Yang. I didn't see Liu in the two previous visits to Hong Kong. Yang's father was afraid that his daughter would lose hope again. He used this method. Poor parents!

希望杨丽鹃不要再执迷不悟了，不要再追刘德华了。逼死了自己的父亲不要再逼死自己的母亲！

I hope that Yang Lijuan will stop obsessing and chasing Liu Dehua. If you force your father to death, don't force your mother to death again!