生活分享：谁是你人生中最大的支持者？

There’re many ups and downs in life. You know without the ones who always support you, life’d have been a lot harder. Who’s your biggest supporter in life? Share with all our readers.

生活中充满了曲折坎坷。倘若身边没有支持的人，生活会更加艰难。谁是你生活中最大的支持者？请跟大家分享下吧。

下面是6位网友的分享，你的身边有没有他们说的这些人？

Abayomi Jegede

My Dad. I lost my mom at age 10, so it’s been my dad all through. He’s very supportive and one thing I love the most about him is he gives you liberty to pursue your own dreams and follow your heart. He gives very wise counsels to myself and my siblings.

我的老爸。我10岁就没了妈妈，一直是老爸把我拉扯大的。他非常支持我，最令我感激的就是，他给我自由，让我听从内心追逐梦想。他能给我和兄弟姐妹们提供非常忠恳的建议。

Jeremy Ng

My biggest supporter has been myself. Not trying to be narcissistic, just trying to be real. No one has been with me through my struggles, even when I try to open myself up.

我一直就是自己的最大支持者。这不是自恋，只是实话实说。遇到困难时，就算我想敞开心胸，也从来没有人支持过我。

Sometimes when you just don’t have the people around you no matter how hard you try, you just got to find it in yourself to keep going. Because in the end, you are the master of your own fate. You are the captain of your soul. Take charge of your life. If someone comes along, great. If no one does, there’s no excuse either not to be moving forward.

有时候不管你多么努力，别人也不会支持你，那你只能自己鼓励自己继续前行。因为归根结底，你才是自己命运的主人。你是自己灵魂的船长，所以自己掌管人生吧。要是有人支持，固然很好，但若是没人挺你，你也不能因此徘徊不前。

Ideally, I’d still like to have someone. I still want to achieve greatness and make someone proud because of it. And then I will have this to say to him or her. “Thanks for seeing this through with me. I couldn’t have done it without you.”

我还是希望身边最好有人支持的。我也还是希望取得成就，让支持我的人感到骄傲的。然后我会告诉他或她：“谢谢你一直支持我，没有你我不可能取得这些成就。”

Allison Mandel

My biggest supporter in life is my mom. She is the absolute best. She is the most trustworthy, honest, and reliable friend. She talks me through everything, picks me up when I am down, loves me even at my worst, and genuinely enjoys seeing me at my happiest. She supports all of my endeavors (Even the ones she wouldn’t want to do herself!) and always has my best interest in mind. And she makes me laugh! Who could ask for anything more? My mom taught me what unconditional love is– something that I am lucky and grateful for– something that I hope to one day have with a future child of my own.

我生活中的最大支持者是妈妈。她绝对是最棒的妈妈。她是最值得信任的、最忠诚可靠的朋友。她跟我无话不谈，在我失落时给我鼓劲，在我最窘迫时依然深爱着我，并且发自内心地希望看到我快乐幸福。她支持我的每一次尝试，哪怕有些尝试在她自己看来绝不会去做；她也总是记得我的兴趣喜好。还有就是，她总能让我开怀欢笑！能够这样的妈妈，夫复何求？我的老妈让我懂得什么是无私的爱——为此我倍感幸运倍加感激，也希望将来某天能传递给我自己的子女。

Eva Lantsoght

My mom – she has always been the one to drive me around as a child to all my activities, the one to come to every single concert I played, the one to read every single blog post that I write, the one to visit me in far-flung places where I’ve live (taking herself far out of her comfort zone), and the one to come and take care of me when I’m sick. She’s an amazing woman!

我的妈妈——小时候一直是妈妈开车送我参加各种活动，她会参加我演出的每一场音乐会，读我写下的每一篇博客，远离自己的舒适区到很远的地方探望我，当我生病的时候，她还会到身边照料我。妈妈真是了不起的女人！

Chris Haigh

My family and myself, for different reasons; my family have always been there for me, supporting through catastrophic events and celebrations alike and I love them more than I can ever express for that, and I myself have always been a proponent of going after what I want, even if it takes me a while to either figure out what I want, or how to get there, or getting there at all. If that makes sense.

我的家人和我自己吧，理由太多了。我的家人一直都很支持我，不论是倒霉还是好事，他们都会站在我身边。我无法用语言表达自己是多么爱他们。此外，如果这也算的话，我一直都很鼓励自己追求所想——哪怕弄清想要什么或如何实现目标都得折腾一番。

Ariel C. Williams

My biggest supporters are a dynamic set of like-minded individuals: my friends. And this is not to say that my family isn’t, but I’ve been blessed with friends – some closer than others – who understand and encourage me in ways family has not. Aside from them, close strangers (if that makes sense) that I’ve connected with over the internet have swapped support of me for years.

我最大的支持者都是些志趣相投的人：我的朋友。这不是说我的家人不支持我，但我确实有一帮不错的朋友。有几个朋友关系更为亲密，能够以家人没有的方式理解并鼓励我。除了朋友，还有就是网上认识的熟悉的陌生人（如果算数的话），这些年一直在相互支持鼓励着彼此。