历届四级作文真题范文

　　Directions：For this part， you are allowed 30 minutes to write a short essay entitled How Should Parents Help Children to Be Independent? You should write at least 120 words folllowing the outline given below.

　　1. 目前不少父母为孩子包办一切

　　2. 为了让孩子独立， 父母应该

　　How Should Parents Help Children to Be Independent?

　　范文一：(文都版)

　　Today in China， many families have only one child. So the children usually doted upon by all family members. Gradually some of them get used to depending on their parents and family members， as a result they lack the ability to face their lives by themselves.

　　There are some ways to help children to be independent. First， the child should have a chance to see the world around him individually to understand that there are various people and competitions in their lives， and learn to find his right position in the society only by individual efforts. Second， it is impossible to ask a child not to depend on parents at once.The parents may give the child enough help and space to make him feel comfortable. A child needs help from their families. Because without any help， the child may lose his faith. Thirdly， parents can help their children make their own decisions， which can challenge his ability to deal with problems. A child should be praised when he is successful or encouraged when he fails.

　　To be independent is vital for the children， because no parents can go with their children for the whole life. Only an independent person can live and enjoy a full and meaningful life.

　　范文二：(版)

　　It is nothing unusual to find overprotective parents who help their children in all aspects of life. The question is， are they sure their heart loaded with love will bring good to their children? Let s look at the real situation of the second-rich generation. Some of them， rather than becoming the second-strong generation， becomes the defeated generation which is notorious for their life focused on consumption rather than creation.

　　Because of the changes of education in history， most Chinese parents， though successfully accumulate wealth， don t know much about the right value they should pass on to the new generation. They have tried all that they can to be good parents while neglecting the core value they should address， which is INDEPENDENCE.

　　How should parents help children to be independent?

　　They should give their children the freedom to make choices for themselves. Children cannot be happy if they don t have control over their life， which in daily life， means they make choices for themselves， like， what to eat， what to wear， what career to do， what kind of spouse they are going to marry. Some parents may be open-minded enough to let their children to make these tiny decisions about food and clothes， but when it comes to the big ones， they are too anxious to let their children have a try. They used to be young and they made mistakes and now it is their sons and daughters turn to be young the deep love and care is so intense that it becomes even suffocating--they are reluctant to give their children opportunities to start to be responsible for their own lives.

　　范文三：(版)

　　how shuould parents help children to be independent?

　　There is no denying the fact that independence plays an increasingly important part in our daily life and we can t help asking such a question： how should parents help children to be independent?

　　To begin with， it is imperative that parents provide opportunities to children and allow them to participate in the social games which contribute to the independence of the children. What s more， under the excessive care and protection of parents， these children are lack of the ability to overcome the difficulties that abound in their real life. Therefore， it s a must for parents to cultivate the independence which helps their children easily conquer and frustration and depression。

　　To conclude， it s essential for us to dispose of the problem of children s independence timely and effectively. Parents should help children develop strong independence and the abilities needed in the future. Only in this way can they be ready to confront any challenges in the society of fierce competition。

　　范文四：(恩波版)

　　How should parents help children to be independent?

　　Nowadays, there s an increasing number of household in China that has an only one child. Most of parents Love and care for children so much that children has less chances to deal with problems by themselves. Consequently, children get used to depending on their parents in everything and lack of ability to solve problems independently, which is bad for their growing.

　　There are some effective ways for parents to help their children be independent. To start with, parents should give their children more chances to experience the world and life around them. Thus their children can enhance the capability to overcome the difficulties and handle problems independently. In addition, parents should offer enough assistance when their children need some instructions and advices. In this way, they depend on their parents in a right way and can solve problems independently when they face the same one next time. Last but not least, parents should allow their children to make decisions independently. Children would improve the ability to deal with the problems they are confronted with in their life.

　　From the above discussion, I strongly believe that parent should help their children be independent by instructing them in a proper way rather than planning and considering everything for them. It s children who decide their future and fate, so it would be beneficial for them to live independently with some proper instructions of their parents.

　　范文五：点点版

　　In our modern and contemporary society , whether parents should offer a helping hand to make their children independent has become a hot button . In other words , we cannot afford to lose sight of the trend that the kids independence has become a social focus , which triggers wide concerns across the nation , especially from the parents . This tide does exist in our society .

　　In our society , a sizable portion of parents , especially the young ones, spoil their kids from all aspects. Specifically speaking, they help their children pile and clear up their school bags , wash their clothes ,even socks . Besides, they also talk to their children if only you succeed in your studies , you can leave anything else to me. This prevalent tide inspires deep thoughts.

　　From my viewpoint , in an effort to reverse and eliminate this unfavorable trend mentioned above , considering the seriousness of this headache , parents are supposed to teach their kids how to cope with a variety of complex situations. In addition, parents also should take every opportunity to equip themselves with advanced educational knowledge and keep pace with the times and communicate with other parents who enjoy a wealth ofeducational experience . In a word, we all hope that these children have less reliance on their parents and become independent economically and mentally.