how much do we learn proving that we are right? nothing.how much do we learn proving that other people are wrong? nothing.how much of our lives have been wasted on these two pursuits? far too much.buddha taught his students to do what he suggested only if it made sense in the context of their own lives. in other words, if it works for you, do it. if it doesnt work for you, just let it go.
our natural tendency when others give suggestions we dont agree with is to immediately become defensive and prove they are wrong. our natural tendency when others give suggestions we do agree with is to point out that we already knew that, implying that the suggestion is unnecessary.the next time someone gives you an idea or counsel, listen without judgment, try to find value in what youre hearing, and say: thank you.
this sage advice is easy to understand yet hard to practice. ill give you an example from my life when i totally blew it in terms of practicing what i teach. my guess is that when you read my story, youll agree that what i did was not only stupid, it was dangerous. ill also predict that youve done the same stupid thing that i didperhaps even on multiple occasions.
情人节美文欣赏:爱如清晨的阳光
英语美文欣赏:茶马古道
英语美文:Plan For Success
诗歌:记如果你忘了我
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英语美文赏析:真爱无限
心灵鸡汤:爱:能够创造奇迹的力量
双语散文:I like the subtle... 我喜欢这种淡淡的感觉
☆英语诗歌欣赏☆ 勿忘我-Forget Me Not
趣味英语小故事:A Bad Foot
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英语阅读:Today I Saw a Butterfly
英文短篇小说欣赏:A Goodbye Kiss
趣味英语小故事:Shave Me First
英语阅读:The Whale Sound
英语晨读:美德
英语名篇名段背诵精华46
心灵鸡汤:眼里有心 眼镜男孩找回自信
双语散文:What is Love?
美文赏析:给生命定价
英语阅读:A Hand to Hold
精美英文欣赏:人生之笔
英语美文欣赏:论爱情(培根)
双语散文:我会多采些雏菊花
英语美文欣赏:百万英镑(中文)
英语美文欣赏:眼里有心
情人节英文诗背诵:你是我心中最美
心灵鸡汤:成长的树根
优秀散文赏析:孩子的守护天使
双语散文:不,我爱的人是你!
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