善意的谎言和讲诚信的辩论会

曾经看过这样一则小故事：在拍卖会上，主持人厉声问道：“接下来要拍卖诚信这样东西，起价是无价，开始！”由此可见，诚信是多么重要了！

Once seen such a small story: at the auction, the host snapped: "the next thing to auction integrity, starting price is priceless, start!" This shows how important honesty is!

就从我们身边来看吧，若是朋友与朋友间没有了诚信，那么这朋友间就没有了信任，会决裂？不，恐怕没有那么简单，会反目成仇，更有可能因为中间闹得一点的小小的不愉快而将你置身于死地。我们口中所经常讲的一个词是什么，是诚信。

From our side, if there is no trust between friends, then there is no trust between friends, will break? No, I'm afraid it's not that simple. It's more likely that you will die because of a little bit of unhappiness in the middle. What is a word we often say? Honesty.

诚信是什么一个意思？我想恐怕不外乎两个词：诚实、信任。诚实其实与信任是两个好朋友，手挽手而行的。有一次，有一个朋友请我去吃零食，我十分纳闷地问她：“你家长不是不让你买零食吗？这。。这哪来的钱啊？”她小声地告诉我：“没有啦，是我偷偷带出来的，你不要告密。”那时还小，见她不好意思再说，我也不好意思再问，并发誓一定不会告诉她的家长。没想到才过了几天，她便哭丧着脸对我说：“呜。我完蛋了，我的行迹一不小心被我妈发现了，现在啊，连奖励都没有了！还要我做完那几张练习卷呢！”随后她好像想到了什么，问我：“你有零用钱吗？”“NO”我干脆地告诉她，并告诫她：“没关系的，你回去你爸妈肯定会原谅你的！”果然，过了几天，她爸妈就“勉强”原谅她了。不知道在哪里曾经看过：“做错事并不可怕，可怕的是你没有承认的勇气。”当第一次听到这句话时，我觉得说得十分得对啊！纸是包不住火的，只要你肯承认了错误，痛改前非，我们一定会原谅你的。

What does integrity mean? I'm afraid there are no more than two words: honesty and trust. In fact, honesty and trust are two good friends, walking hand in hand. Once, a friend invited me to have snacks, and I asked her very curiously, "your parents don't let you buy snacks? This is. Where's the money? " She told me in a low voice, "no, I brought it out secretly. Don't tell me." At that time, I was still young. I was embarrassed to ask her again. I swore that I would not tell her parents. Unexpectedly, only a few days later, she said to me with a sad face: "woo. I'm finished. My career was discovered by my mother accidentally. Now, there's no reward! I have to finish those exercise papers! " Then she thought of something and asked me, "do you have any pocket money?" "No" I simply told her, and warned her: "it doesn't matter, you go back to your parents will certainly forgive you!" Sure enough, after a few days, her parents "reluctantly" forgive her. I don't know where I've seen it before: "it's not terrible to do something wrong. What's terrible is that you don't have the courage to admit it." When I heard that for the first time, I thought it was quite right! Paper can't contain fire. As long as you are willing to admit your mistakes and correct your mistakes, we will certainly forgive you.

不知怎的，我忽然想起了美国总统华盛顿与他父亲和他父亲樱桃树的故事。虽然华盛顿不小心砍倒了父亲的樱桃树，但面对愤怒的父亲，不但没有说谎话，说了实话：“父亲，是我砍倒了您的樱桃树，对不起，我只是想试一试斧头利不利。”华盛顿的父亲却转悲为喜：“儿子，虽然你砍倒了我的樱桃树，但你肯说实话。知道吗，我宁愿损失一百棵樱桃树也不愿你说一句谎话！”我立即想起了自己。虽然有时候家人骗我说游戏机带去另外一个地方了，但我知道，我的游戏机在家里，也不去找，因为我知道，他们是不想我因为玩游戏机而耽误学习。这是善意的谎言，这种谎言是最不会失去诚信的。诚信，不是人人都能拥有，但有人却能永远拥有，视乎你有没有好好把握住诚信的机会。

Somehow, I suddenly remembered the story of American President Washington with his father and his father's cherry tree. Although Washington accidentally cut down his father's cherry tree, in the face of his angry father, he didn't lie and told the truth: "father, I cut down your cherry tree. I'm sorry, I just want to try my axe to make a profit." Washington's father turned sad into happy: "son, although you cut down my cherry tree, you are willing to tell the truth. You know, I'd rather lose a hundred cherry trees than tell a lie! " I immediately thought of myself. Although sometimes my family lied to me that the game machine was taken to another place, I knew that my game machine was at home and I would not go to find it, because I knew that they did not want me to delay my study because of playing the game machine. This is a white lie. This kind of lie will not lose its honesty. Integrity, not everyone can have, but someone can always have, depending on whether you have a good grasp of the opportunity of integrity.