为什么不该追求男生

1. IT'S BAD FOR YOUR SELF-ESTEEM

1. 有损你的自尊

Chasing after a guy who isn't noticing you makes you feel like you're not good enough and is a major blow for your self-confidence!

追求一个没有注意你的男生会让你觉得自己不够好，会严重打击你的自尊。

2. IT'S EXHAUSTING

2. 太累了

The effort of texting, social media stalking and going round to his house is more tiring than you might think…

发短信、时刻关注他的社交媒体动态、在他家附近转悠等行为可能比你想象的还要累人……

3. BE REALISTIC

3. 现实一点

If you have to chase him, we're sorry to say it, but it looks like he's just not that into you!

如果你不得不追求他，那么很遗憾的告诉你，实际上他好像并没有那么喜欢你！

4. IT WOULD NEVER WORK OUT

4. 你是无法成功的

Even if you did eventually 'catch' him, it's unlikely that he's the kind of guy that would be committed and it wouldn't be a healthy relationship!

即使你最终'追到了'他，但他也很有可能不是那种会做出承诺的男生，这样的感情并不健康。

5. HE'S CLEARLY NOT WORTH IT

5. 很明显，他不值得你的付出

Do you really want to be with a guy who keeps you on the chase and plays mind games anyway?

你真的想要和一个让你一直追着他、和你玩心理游戏的男生在一起吗？

6. YOU'RE SETTING YOURSELF UP FOR HEARTBREAK

6. 你会让自己心碎

The more you chase him, the more you build up your feelings for him, making the rejection even more painful when it inevitably happens.

你越是追求他，你对他付出的感情也就越多，当他不可避免的拒绝你时，你就会特别痛苦！

7. MISSING OUT ON SOMETHING BETTER

7. 错过更好的人

Whilst you're chasing after a guy who's clearly not The One, you could be missing out on other fun dating opportunities!

在你追求那个显然不是你真命天子的男生时，你可能会错过一些比较有趣的约会对象！

8. YOU LOSE SIGHT OF YOURSELF

8. 你迷失了自我

Obsessing over a guy and thinking about him 24/7 can mean that you forget about looking after yourself and having all important 'me time'.

迷恋一个男生，一天24小时的想着他可能意味着你会忘记照顾自己、忘记重要的'自我时间'。

9. THERE'S MORE TO LIFE THAN DATING!

9. 生活中比约会更重要的事还有很多！

As well as forgetting about yourself, chasing after a guy can mean that you forget about your family, friends and work side of your life. Take a step back and put everything into perspective!

除了忘记自己以外，追求一个男生还意味着你可能忘了自己的家人、朋友和工作。退后一步，考虑生活中的方方面面吧！

10. IT CAN AFFECT YOUR FUTURE RELATIONSHIPS

10. 会对以后的恋情造成影响

You risk going go into future relationships thinking that all guys need to be chased. Well let us tell you ladies, a healthy relationship is based on mutual, not unrequited love!

你正在冒险，你会以为谈恋爱都该女追男。额，女士们，我得告诉你们，一段健康恋情的基础是彼此相爱、而不是单恋。