雅思双语阅读：光棍必看 绝招追女

　　雅思双语阅读：光棍必看 绝招追女

　　Although interacting with girls seems like an intimidating endeavor to many guys, adhering to certain principles allows it to be a more comfortable and enjoyable experience for everyone involved。

　　尽管对很多男生而言与女生交往简直是噩梦，但遵循以下几个简单的原则将会给你带来很多愉快的体验。

　　Steps操作步骤：

　　1. Be yourself. 做你自己。

　　Its important to maintain self confidence by being yourself around girls. If you adopt an alternate personality to attract girls, you will eventually be weighed down with the feeling that your true self isnt good enough. It may help to develop and improve your social skills, but any girls that dont appreciate you for who you are dont deserve your attention。

　　在与女生们交往的过程中做好自己、拥有自信是非常重要的。如果你改变自己的个性去吸引她们的话，到头来你会感到很失落因为真实的你差劲到无法吸引女生。做你自己可以培养你的社交技巧，任何不欣赏你的女生都不值得你关注。

　　2. Respect all girls equally. 平等地尊重每个女生。

　　You stand a much better chance of making a good overall impression if you treat girls that dont interest you just as nicely as those that do. This doesnt mean that you need to talk to or flirt with every girl, but dont ignore them or treat them dismissively. Dont talk to a girl about other girls attractiveness; its distasteful and can degrade the girls opinion of herself. You generally shouldnt talk about past relationships youve had, or other girls that interest you; it detracts from building a new relationship。

　　如果你将恐龙和美女一视同仁的话，这会给她们带来深刻的印象，你也会因此得到更好的机 会。这并不意味着你得同每个女生闲扯或调情，但请不要无视恐龙们的存在，更不要去鄙视她们。不要在一个女生面前谈论其他女生的魅力，这会让她们感到厌恶，甚至看轻自己。通常来讲别扯你的那些风流往事，或其他的女友候选人，这对建立新的关系是非常不利的。

　　3. Make eye contact. 眉目传情。

　　Many girls like it when you cant take your eyes off them, but not when youre staring at their boobs. Although there are some girls that may enjoy such attention, you wont offend anyone by focusing on her face instead. Do not ogle her. Just remember to use discretion and show proper respect。

　　很多女生喜欢看到男生的目光黏在自己的身上，但是不要老盯着她们的胸部看，尽管有个别女生确实有此嗜好，你还是盯着她们的脸比较好，但可别用色迷迷的眼神。记住目光中应该透露出你慎重以及尊敬。

　　4. Make them feel special. 让她们感到很特别。

　　Girls like it when youre forward but not in a creepy way. Smile at her in a way thats clear, friendly, and/or playful. If you feel compelled to honesty, you can offer a sincere compliment. For example, you could say Did anyone ever tell you that you have a beautiful smile? Eyes are another good one--theyre not the easiest thing to notice, and it shows you were looking at her face. Select something good that is reserved for her only; it will make her feel wonderfully special, admired, and beautiful。

　　女生们很欣赏你的勇敢，但不要吓到她们。单纯友好甚至戏虐的微笑都是可以的。如果你希望能坦诚一些，那么可以诚挚地恭维一下。例如，你可以说，有人说过你的微笑很迷人吗?眼睛也是个不错的选择，即使你不容易注意到，这也可以暗示你在认真地看她的脸。选择她独有的特点切入，这会让她感到拥有特别的感受，觉得自己很美丽，受人爱慕。

　　5. Be a gentleman. 做一个绅士。

　　Girls love guys that are polite and courteous. Its just a matter of doing simple things like holding doors open for them and being respectful in other ways. Some claim chivalry is dead, but if you believe that, then youre going to have some problems getting a girls interest。

　　女生们喜欢那些彬彬有礼的男生。做到这一点也很简单帮她们开门或者以礼相待。某些骑士时代的礼节已经过时，如果你坚持使用，这会让她们感到很诡异，反而会弄巧成拙。

　　6. Make her laugh. 逗她开心。

　　Being funny is one of the most attractive qualities a guy can have, and if youre not handsome, a girl will usually overlook that! If youre not goofy but you have a very dry, sarcastic sense of humor, use that. Just watch your timing and try not to be too goofy, or you may make a fool of yourself. Its okay to tease her a little, but generally not about her appearance。

　　风趣是每个男生都应具有的品质，相比于帅气，女生们更重于此。如果你智商不低，而且还拥有独特的幽默感，那么尽管拿来用吧。把握时机也很重要，可以揶揄对方，但是原则上不要拿她的相貌来开玩笑。

　　7. Notice when youre having a conversation and she seems uncomfortable, change the subject. 注意碰到女生不喜欢的话题时，要转换话题。

　　Watch her movements, if shes shifting her weight a lot and not making eye contact, chances are shes uncomfortable。

　　留意她的举动，如果你发现她们频繁地变换姿势或者与你没有眼神的交流，那就表示她们对当前的话题感到不适。

　　8. Recognize that physical contact should be limited by the state of your relationship. 肢体接触的范围应依当前所处的关系而定。

　　Acquaintances--A handshake when introducing yourself is probably a reasonable limit for a first meeting. You can also subtly brush your hand against her hand or arm。

　　初识。初次见面可以握握手。你的手可以轻轻地划过她的手或胳膊。