Good morning, ladies and gentlemen. Today I want to tell you a story about one of my friends, a lovely and smart girl who is always ready to help others. Being our grade leader, she is good at both work and study. In many people's opinion, she is excellent and perfect. But one day she told me she was gloomy and insecure. People around her considered her outstanding and flawless, thinking she could handle everything. But the more she thought about herself, the more disappointed she became. She found that she was far from perfection. Last week, she didn’t do well in her French quiz, and the day before yesterday, she was late for a conference. She felt depressed and frustrated, because she failed to be a perfect girl without any mistakes.
I was surprised to hear that for I thought she had every reason to be confident. However, the expectation of perfection has become a burden to her. I told her no one could be perfect and I suggested she find her own position.
In fact, people are so eager to be perfect that they demand too much of themselves. They want to be special and unique, and they want to have no defects or weaknesses. However, we can never avoid mistakes and errors. It’s impossible for us to be a superman or a superwoman. No matter how successful we are, there are always some flaws. If we hold that everything should be perfect, we would be overcritical.
My friend now has changed her attitude. She accepts her shortcomings but still keeps a positive outlook. She is even more active and doesn’t allow the mistakes to hinder her pursuit of excellence. And I think that’s the way we should be!That’s all. Thank you!
女士们、先生们,大家早上好!今天我想给大家讲一个我朋友的故事。她是一个聪明可爱、乐于助人的女孩。作为我们的年级长,她无论工作还是学习都很出色。在很多人眼里,她是如此优秀,近乎完美了。但有一天她却告诉我,她很迷惘和自卑:周围的人都认为她很优秀,完美无缺,可以对付任何事情;而她想得越多对自己就越是失望。她发觉自己远不够完美。上周她的法语测验考得不理想;前天,一个会议她又迟到了:很多事情做的不尽完美,这让她很是灰心丧气。
听到这些的时候我很惊讶,我原以为她有充分的理由对自己充满信心。然而,对完美的期望却变成了她的负担。我告诉她,没有人可以完美无缺的,她应该找到自己真正的位置。
实际上,人们有时过于追求完美而且期望的太多了。我们想要特别,想要独一无二;又想要没有缺点没有弱点。可是,人是无法避免错误的,有谁能成为超人呢?无论你多么成功,总是有一些事情不够完美。如果我们坚持要完美无缺,那只能是一种求全责备。
我的朋友现在已经改变了她的态度。她承认自己的不完美,但是保持着乐观的心态。她没有停止追求,反而变得更为积极。我想这正是我们应该有的态度。
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