幸福人生教给我们的10个启迪

No matter how bad your heart has been broken the world doesn’t stop for your grief. The sun comes right back up the next day.

不管你曾经多受伤，世界都不会停下来。太阳第二天照样升起。

Supporting, guiding, and making contributions to other people is one of life’s greatest rewards. In order to get, you have to give.

给他人支持，指导，作贡献是生活的奖励。为了获得，你必须付出。

Learn to adjust the sails of your life to unpredictable winds, while keeping your focus clear on your destination. And keep sailing until you get there.

如果遇到大风，要学会调整你生活的航行，保持方向，直到你到达。

As you strive to achieve your goals and dreams you can count on there being some fairly substantial disappointments along the way. Don’t get discouraged, the road to your dreams may not be an easy one. Think of these disappointments as challenges - tests of persistence and courage - that life throws at you during your journey. They are necessary and are meant to help you grow as a person.

在你追求梦想的路上，你肯定会遇到挫折。不要失望，梦想之路不会是一帆风顺的。把这些挫折看作是生活对你的挑战，考验你的毅力和勇气。在你的成长之路上，这些是必须的。

Spend less than you earn, go without until you have the money in hand.

花得比挣得少，手里有钱才出去。

Freedom is the greatest gift. Self-sufficiency is the greatest freedom.

自由是最伟大的礼物。自给自足是最伟大的自由。

Even when you feel like you have nothing, someone else likely has far less. Find them and help them. You’ll see why.

即使你感到自己拥有的东西很少，有些人会比你更少。找到他们，帮助他们，你自己会发现原因的。

Marriages evolve and change. The feelings you had for the man or woman you married will mutate and evolve several times over the life of a marriage. Hopefully you will evolve in the same direction or at least embrace and accept the changes in the other person. It takes work, and sometimes it takes counseling. Don’t gloss over those changes or you may wake up next to a stranger one day.

婚姻会发生变化。在婚姻的旅途中，你和对方的感情会发生变化。希望你们可以变化的方向相同，至少可以接受彼此的变化。这需要工作或者咨询。不要掩饰这些变化，否则你会发现躺在你身边的是一个陌生人。

Negativity breeds more negativity. When you focus only on the negative, obviously that’s all you will see. You will not seek out positivity, and even when positivity comes into your life, you’ll look for the negative side of things.

越消极就会越消极。如果你只注意到消极的一面，所有你看到的都是消极的。你不会看到积极的东西，即使积极的事物闯进你的生活，你只会看到消极的一面。

If you want something in your life you’ve never had, you’ll have to do something you’ve never done.

如果你想拥有生活中从没有过的东西，你就需要做一些你从没做过的事情。