女生如何鉴定男友是否是花花公子

Why do men play around when they know full well they will eventually get caught and it ends up hurting someone else's feelings? What it comes down to for these types of guys is the thrill of the chase, they get so wrapped up in the sexual tension and chasing, it becomes somewhat of an addiction.

为什么男人明知道最终会被逮住，还要四处留情，以伤害他人的感情来收场？总结这类男人，他们是喜欢追求女人的快感！他们被性压抑和追求欲束缚得太紧了，甚至上了瘾。

Ok so that's all well and good for them, but what about if you are on the receiving end of this, how bad is this going to make you feel when you find out he's cheating on you or he's thinking about it? Terrible of course!

这样对他们这些男人当然好，但如果是你要来遭遇、忍受这一切，那会怎样？当你发现他在欺骗你，或是正有此打算时，你会有多伤心难过？当然是糟透了！

However there are a few things you should know if you want to spot whether he is that type of guy and what you need to do to get out quickly before you get hurt, so let's get started... " Warning: Is Your Guy A Player?"

不过，如果你想知道一个男人是不是那种花花公子，以便在受伤前尽早脱身，你就需要知道以下这些事情。让我们开始吧：“注意：你的男人是个花花公子吗？”

1. He'll shamelessly flirt with other women in front of you.

1. 他会在你面前毫不羞耻的跟别的女人调情！

Players are often always thinking about where the next one is coming from. One of the symptoms of this is that he might blatantly flirt with other women right under your nose.

花花公子经常在琢磨：我的下个女人会从哪儿来？其中一个特征就是，他在你眼皮子底下都敢公然与其她女人调情！（过分！pia飞他！！）

I'm not saying you have to be paranoid about every girl he talks to, but watch out for him exchanging lots of numbers, or making inappropriate physical contact with every girl who comes over.

这也并不是说凡是和他说话的每个女人都要疑心，不过如果他和很多人交换电话，或是碰到一个女人就有不寻常的身体接触，那就真要当心了！

2. He openly talks about other women in your presence.

2. 当着你的面公然谈论其他女人！

Some players will be completely untactful about showing (or evenoutright telling you!) about their attraction for other women.

有些花花公子完全没有分寸，他们会表现出（甚至直接告诉你！）其他女人对他们很有吸引力。（不知道当着一个女人赞美另一个女人是大忌吗？！）

Any guy who talks about other women being "hot" in your presence is either trying to make you jealous, or it's a clear indication that he's not particularly worried about your feelings (another sign of a player).

如果一个男人你面前说其他女人“性感”，那他要么就是想让你嫉妒，要么就是清楚的表明他根本不在乎你的感受（花花公子的另一个标志）。 （故意让你嫉妒？介不是只有女孩子才玩的小把戏嘛……）

3. He's uncurious about you as a person.

3. 他并不好奇你的为人！

Players aren't usually bothered about you past superficial characteristics.

花花公子往往才不会介意你过去的肤浅特点呢。

Usually a "player" type will want you because he's sexually attracted but he doesn't really want to ask questions that will help him know you better as a person.

通常一个花花公子想要你，都是因为性欲所趋，才不是真的想问点问题来更好的了解你的为人呢！

4. He won't go out of his way to plan anything special.

4. 他不会不怕麻烦准备任何特别的惊喜

Players are usually seeing a few women at one time, which often means they can't be bothered to devote a lot of energy to any one of them.

花花公子往往同时约会着好几个女人，所以他们不会把大量精力都只放在一个女人身上。

A player will often do what's convenient for him. It's unlikely he's going to surprise you with tickets to that play you've been dying to see, or make any romantic gestures.

他们往往会做自己方便的事情。指望花花公子奉上你期待已久的演出门票给你惊喜？或是其他浪漫举动？想都表想了！

5. He doesn't want to get involved in your life.

5. 他不想融入你的生活

Players want casual relationships. That means they get panic at the idea of meeting parents, or getting involved with your friends,or any activity which makes him feel like he's in a couple.

很随便的关系才是花花公子想要的。所以你如果想让他们见父母、融入你的朋友圈、或是参加任何会让他感到你们是一对儿的活动，花花公子会非常头疼。

Guys who want something serious with you will be interested in becoming a bigger part of your life. On the other hand, players are always planning their exit. They never want too much emotional attachment, because they're scared of feeling guilty when they move on to someone else.

认认真真和你谈恋爱的男人会希望成为你生活中更大的一部分。而花花公子却总在计划怎么撤退。他们从来不想有太多的感情依恋，因为他们不想一旦换了枕边人会心头有愧。

Watch out for these sure signs and you'll have no problems spotting the players early on!

小心这些明确的信号，这样你就能尽早识别出花花公子的真面目了！

So by now you should understand exactly what type of guys are players and who you need to avoid if you want a chance at developing some kind of relationship. Players don't care about your feelings, they just care for themselves, so it's really not worthy our time to try and change them - because they won't change!

好了，现在你应该能准确的判断出什么样的男人是花花公子了，如果你想要发展一段稳定的关系，就知道该避开谁了。花花公子才不在乎你的感受呢，他们只顾自己，所以真的不值得你花时间去尝试改变他们——他们是狗改不了吃屎！