I live in the land of Disney, Hollywood and year-round sun. You may think people in such a glamorous, fun-filled place are happier than others. If so, you have some mistaken ideas about the nature of happiness.
Many intelligent people still equate happiness with fun. The truth is that fun and happiness have little or nothing in common. Fun is what we experience during an act. Happiness is what we experience after an act. It is a deeper, more abiding emotion.
Going to an amusement park or ball game, watching a movie or television, are fun activities that help us relax, temporarily forget our problems and maybe even laugh. But they do not bring happiness, because their positive effects end when the fun ends.
I have often thought that if Hollywood stars have a role to play, it is to teach us that happiness has nothing to do with fun. These rich, beautiful individuals have constant access to glamorous parties, fancy cars, expensive homes, everything that spells happiness。 But in memoir after memoir, celebrities reveal the unhappiness hidden beneath all their fun: depression, alcoholism, drug addiction, broken marriages, troubled children and profound loneliness.
Ask a bachelor why he resists marriage even though he finds dating to be less and less satisfying. If hes honest, he will tell you that he is afraid of making a commitment. For commitment is in fact quite painful. The single life is filled with fun, adventure and excitement. Marriage has such moments, but they are not its most distinguishing features.
Similarly, couples that choose not to have children are deciding in favor of painless fun over painful happiness. They can dine out ever they want and sleep as late as they want. Couples with infant children are lucky to get a whole nights sleep or a three-day vacation. I dont know any parent who would choose the word fun to describe raising children.
Understanding and accepting that true happiness has nothing to do with fun is one of the most liberating realizations we can ever come to. It liberates time: now we can devote more hours to activities that can genuinely increase our happiness. It liberates money: buying that new car or those fancy clothes that will do nothing to increase our happiness now seems pointless. And it liberates us from envy: we now understand that all those rich and glamorous people we were so sure are happy because they are always having so much fun actually may not be happy at all.
1.Which of the following is true?
A.Fun creates long-lasting satisfaction. B.Fun provides enjoyment while pain leads to happiness. C.Happiness is enduring whereas fun is short-lived. D.Fun that is long-standing may lead to happiness.
2.To the author, Hollywood stars all have an important role to play that is to __. A.rite memoir after memoir about their happiness. B.tell the public that happiness has nothing to do with fun. C.teach people how to enjoy their lives. D.bring happiness to the public instead of going to glamorous parties.
3.In the authors opinion, marriage___. A.affords greater fun. B.leads to raising children. C.indicates commitment. D.ends in pain.
4.Couples having infant children___. A.are lucky since they can have a whole nights sleep. B.find fun in tucking them into bed at night. C.find more time to play and joke with them. D.derive happiness from their endeavor.
5.If one get the meaning of the true sense of happiness, he will__. A.stop playing games and joking with others. B.make the best use of his time increasing happiness. C.give a free hand to money. D.keep himself with his family.
答案:CBCDB
GRE AWA 范文 ——Issue 14
GRE issue写作范文:知识和经验的引进
GRE issue写作范文:交流的有效方式
GRE issue写作范文:冒险与计划
GRE AWA 范文 ——Issue 10
GRE Issue写作优秀实例:政府资助艺术问题
GRE issue写作范文:避免偏激
GRE issue写作范文:竞争和合作
GRE Issue写作优秀实例:更新领导保持活力
GRE issue写作范文:技术影响之旅游
GRE Issue写作优秀实例:独立思考
GRE AWA 范文——Issue 7
GRE issue写作范文:理想和现实
GRE Issue写作优秀实例:新手与专家
GRE issue写作范文:忠诚
GRE issue写作范文:有效率的教育
GRE Issue写作优秀实例:理性和感性之价值观
GRE Issue写作优秀实例:个人和整体
GRE issue写作范文:知识的影响
GRE Issue写作优秀实例:下一代的教育
GRE issue写作范文:重视认知和推理能力
GRE Issue写作优秀实例:个人主义和社会更大利益
GRE Issue写作优秀实例:技术影响之交流
GRE issue写作范文:直接和间接经验
GRE issue写作范文:技术改善生活
GRE Issue写作优秀实例:电视的全球化
GRE Issue写作优秀实例:现代社会
GRE写作提纲思路与分析——issue 190
GRE Issue写作优秀实例:个人责任
GRE Issue写作优秀实例:选择少之又少
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