在生活中，无论和朋友、家人或者是同学间一定发生过许多不愉快的事情。如果因为一点小事而争吵，这样即破坏了友谊，而且心情也不愉快。
In life, no matter with friends, family or classmates, there must have been many unpleasant things. If you quarrel because of a little thing, it will destroy your friendship and make you unhappy.
当我们遇到了这样事情的时候，我们应该学会宽容他人。 一天语文课上，同学们正全神贯注地听老师讲课，突然，同桌的笔掉在了地上。她的钢笔没有盖笔盖，在她捡起的那一瞬间，笔尖正好划到了我的裤子上。
这时，我感觉有什么东西触了我一下，我低头一看，原来是同桌的钢笔。这时，我的同桌也意识到了，连忙向我道歉，我刚想发火，心想划了一下算什么，而且她又不是故意的，洗洗不就干净了吗？然后，我对同桌说“没关系，这证明我和你的钢笔有缘，怎么没画到别的同学呢？”
At this time, I felt something touch me, I looked down, it was the same desk pen. At this time, my deskmate also realized that he apologized to me immediately. I just wanted to get angry, and thought what it was. Besides, she didn't mean it. Wouldn't it be clean after washing? Then I said to my deskmate, "it doesn't matter. It proves that I am bound by your pen. Why didn't I draw other students?"
每当遇到这种事，面前都会出现两扇门，一扇是“自私的门，一扇是“宽容”的门，你会选择哪扇门呢？
Whenever this happens, there will be two doors in front of you. One is "selfish door" and the other is "tolerant". Which door would you choose?