About Raising Kids 关于培养孩子

Today, I happened to read the news that most celebrities pay special attention to their kids’ education, when the baby was inborn, they had already planed the school, they order the school with good fame for the purpose that their kids can have the chance to enter the good school. Some parents even ask their kids to learn several skills in a time when the kids are in primary school. Every parent wants their kids to be the best, but it needs to step by step.

今天，我偶然督导一则资讯，大部分名人注重孩子的教育，在孩子还没落地的时候，他们已经为孩子计划好了学校，他们预定了名声好的学校，为了他们的孩子可以有机会进入到好的学校。一些家长甚至要求孩子在同一时间学几样技能，当他们的孩子还在初中的时候。每个家长都想要他们的孩子成为最优秀的，但是需要一步一步来。

It is such common situation that most small kids need to take several after-class lessons, because the parents want their kids learn as more as possible, so they decide to send their children to learn many skills. In my opinion, the parents should not let their children learn so many classes in the early age, the kids need to spend some time to play with their friends, they need to breathe some fresh air. If the parents push them so much, the children will go against with the parents.

很多小孩子需要在课后参加不同的培训班，这是很常见的现象，因为家长想要他们的孩子尽可能地多学，所以他们决定送孩子去学很多技巧。在我看来，家长不应该让他们的孩子在早期学这么多的课程，孩子需要花时间和他们的朋友玩，他们需要呼吸新鲜的空气。如果家长这么过度地强迫他们，孩子会有逆反心理。

Every parent wants to raise their kids to be the excellent persons, but they must take the right way, they need to give their kids some freedom.

每个家长都想要培养他们的孩子成为最优秀的人，但是他们必须注意正确的方法，他们需要给孩子一些自由。