放孩子一条生路

图画中的孩子不小心摔了一跤，家庭、社会、学校就立即说道：“出事了吧！”仿佛就如他们所预料的一样：孩子如果不唯他们的话是从，就会出事。在他们看来对孩子最好的教育就是听家庭的话，听老师的话，听社会的话。殊不知，这样的结果却只能使孩子走向极端。教育也会深陷死胡同。

The child in the picture accidentally fell down. The family, society and school immediately said, "what happened?" As they expected, if children don't follow them, something will happen. In their opinion, the best education for children is to listen to the family, the teachers and the society. However, such a result can only lead children to extremes. Education will also be stuck in a dead end.

孩子是社会的未来，对孩子实施最好的教育当然无可厚非。但是要知道最好的教育不是让孩子做一个只会服从的“奴隶”，而是要培养他们各方面的能力，使他们具备在这个社会生存的基本技能，只有这样的教育才能算是成功的教育。如今，家长、老师、及社会上的人却经常用自己的经验教条来约束孩子，诚然他们的出发点都是为了孩子好，可是时代在发展，科技在进步，以往的经验教条也许早已不适于现在的孩子们身上，所以又是不仅不发挥作用，反而对孩子来说是一种负担，甚至将他们逼上绝路。

Children are the future of society, and it is no doubt that the best education for children is right. But we should know that the best education is not to let children become slaves who can only obey, but to cultivate their abilities in all aspects, so that they have the basic skills to survive in this society. Only such education can be considered as a successful education. Nowadays, parents, teachers and people in society often use their own experience dogma to restrain their children. It is true that their starting point is for the sake of their children's well-being. However, with the development of the times and the progress of science and technology, the past experience dogma may not be suitable for the children of today, so it is not only ineffective, but also a burden to the children, even forcing them to do so The last road.

放孩子一条生路。从今天起，让他们自己穿衣洗漱，让他们自己乘公共汽车上学，培养他们最基本的生活技能。

Let the child live. From today on, let them dress and wash themselves, let them go to school by bus, and cultivate their most basic life skills.

放孩子一条生路。从今天起让他们多和同学、朋友交往，让他们学会如何正确选择朋友，培养他们在这个社会的社交能力。放孩子一条生路。从今天起，将孩子放在一个艰苦的环境，让他们多吃苦头，让他们知道今天的幸福来得多么不易，培养他们坚强独立的品格。

Let the child live. From today on, let them communicate with their classmates and friends, let them learn how to choose their friends correctly, and cultivate their social ability in this society. Let the child live. From today on, put children in a tough environment, let them suffer more, let them know how hard today's happiness is, and cultivate their strong and independent character.

放孩子一条生路。……

Let the children live a way

是啊，未来是年轻一带的，未来的建设需要年轻人的冲动、热情和精力。在这种条件下，我们更应该关注孩子们的成长，使他们个个都能吃苦耐劳、坚韧不拔，具有广泛的社交能力，那么就请从今天做起吧！

Yes, the future is young. The future construction needs the impulse, enthusiasm and energy of young people. In this condition, we should pay more attention to the growth of children, so that they can all bear hardships and stand hard work, perseverance, and have a wide range of social ability, so please start from today!

不要对孩子过分溺爱，使他们对你形成了依赖，不要要求孩子对自己言听计从，使他们失去独立自主的品性；不要对孩子舍不得放手，放手吧，让孩子们自己去历练人生，经历苦难，让他们自己打造出一片属于自己的天地！

Don't overindulge your children, make them rely on you, don't ask them to obey their own words, and make them lose their independence; don't let go of your children, let go, let the children experience life, experience suffering, and create their own world!

就是这样，不要只让孩子看到柔弱的江南，让他们也到大西北走一走吧！让孩子走出牢笼，放他们一条生路！

That's it. Don't just let the children see the weak Jiangnan. Let them go to the northwest! Let the children out of the cage and let them live!