成长的烦恼

人的成长离不开好朋友，成为好朋友是因为相互交往时的快乐，快乐是需要和谐相处来保持的，而和谐则又是建立在你我他的成长、进步上。所以说：成长、快乐、和谐，“三点共圈”，形成了一个“生物链”，谁也离不开谁的。

People's growth cannot be separated from their good friends, because they are happy when they communicate with each other. Happiness needs to be maintained by harmonious coexistence, and harmony is based on their growth and progress. Therefore, growth, happiness and harmony form a "biological chain", which is inseparable from others.

上面的哲学很复杂？不用急，且听我列举几个事例，你们就懂啦！

Is the philosophy complex? Don't worry. Listen to me for a few examples, and you will understand!

事例1：耀和我是好朋友。一天下午，同学熊丙干和耀斗嘴时，有心无意地说耀长得像小日本鬼子，引得围观同学哈哈大笑。外表懦弱的耀如一只苏醒的雄狮，大喝一声，如光一样快地撞到了熊丙干的身上，两人扭打起来。周围的同学只是一个劲儿的“火上浇油”：呀，熊丙干不行了吗，耀加油！！左勾拳，咬他耳朵……而我，只能默默的在心中为耀念道：“阿门……”结果就不用说了，耀这只“熊”狮被熊丙干打哭在地。“三点共圈生物链”因为“快乐”的丧失而破裂。一路上，耀对我是冷脸相对，不知是否是对我见“死”不救的责怪，处于赎罪的心理，我又是为耀扮鬼脸，又是一直不断地对他念经：“不要悲伤，不要难过；不要悲伤，不要难过……”经过我N遍的劝告，耀“哈”的一声破涕为笑。“三点共圈生物链”重新生成，耀又和我说话啦！

Case 1: Yao and I are good friends. One afternoon, Xiong Binggan, a classmate, had a quarrel with Yao. He intentionally and unintentionally said that Yao looked like a little Japanese ghost, which made the onlookers laugh. The appearance of the cowardly Yao is like a waking lion, a big drink, as fast as the light hit Xiong Binggan, the two fight. The students around are just "adding fuel to the fire": ah, Xiong Binggan can't do it, Yao come on!! Left hook, bite his ear And I can only silently read for Yao: "Amen..." As a result, it goes without saying that Yao, the "bear" lion, was beaten and cried by Xiong Binggan. The "three point biosphere chain" is broken because of the loss of "happiness". Along the way, Yao is opposite to me in cold face. I don't know if it's the blame for seeing "death" and not saving me. I'm in the psychology of atonement. I'm not only making faces for Yao, but also constantly chanting to him: "don't be sad, don't be sad; don't be sad, don't be sad..." After my n times of advice, Yao "ha" burst into tears. "The three point biosphere chain" is regenerating. Yao is talking to me again!

事例2：某次考试我考砸了，独自“倒”在班级外栏杆上，心中的怒气、怨气、伤心憋于心中。耀发现了我，蹑手蹑脚地来到我身边，摇摇晃晃，见我没有反应，略有所思地想了一会儿，便念起了经：“不要悲伤，不要难过；不要悲伤，不要难过……”我被他从黑暗深渊拉了出来，我对他苦笑了0。01秒，他的笑让我拥有了一“纳纳米”的信心……“三点共圈生物链”重新生成，我重新开始“成长”。

Example 2: I failed in an exam and "fell" on the railing outside the class by myself. My anger, resentment and sadness were in my heart. Yao found me and crept up to me, shaking. Seeing that I didn't respond, he thought for a while and then read the Sutra: "don't be sad, don't be sad; don't be sad, don't be sad..." I was pulled out of the dark abyss by him, and I smiled bitterly at him. 01 seconds, his smile let me have a "nano" confidence The "three-point biosphere chain" was regenerated, and I began to "grow" again.

怎么样，看完了我的介绍，了解到这“三点共圈生物链”的重要性了吧。所以说：

How about, after reading my introduction, understand the importance of the three-point biosphere chain. So

成长别烦恼！

Don't worry about growing up!