Communication and Understanding 沟通与理解

Recently, I was so shocked by the news that a young boy died of violence after his parents sent him to a private school. The slogan of the private school was to help parents correct kids' bad behaviors. A lot of parents choose to send their kids here after they giving up educating their kids. The public blamed the parents for not educating their children in the right way. There is no doubt that the root of kids' problems come from family. Many parents always force the children to do what they want and ignore the kids' feelings, so they will go against the elder's thoughts. Finally, the parents lose temper. The elder should show respect to the kids. Communication can solve the problem. When the children receive love and understanding from parents, they will be nice persons.

最近，有一则消息让我很震惊，一个小男孩在他的父母把他送到一所私立学校后死于暴力。私立学校的口号是帮助父母纠正孩子的不良行为。很多父母在放弃教育他们孩子后都选择送到那里。大众指责父母不会以正确的方式教育孩子。毫无疑问，孩子问题的根源来自家庭，许多父母总是强迫孩子按照他们的意愿去做事，而忽略了孩子的感受，所以孩子会和老一代的思想作对，最后，父母就没耐心了。大人应该尊重小孩子，沟通可以解决问题。当孩子们得到来自父母的爱和理解后，他们就会变得很好。