The Importance of Self-Confidence 自信的重要性

It’s generally accepted that confidence plays a very vital role in one’s life. But do you really know what dose self-confidence mean? Well, it means that you have strong belief that you can do things and you will succeed in the end. If you want to do something well, you must have faith in yourself. Just like the old saying goes, confidence in yourself is the first step on the road to success. Otherwise, you may hardly to do anything right. Some people love to complain how incapable they are or how difficult their tasks are, they never think about the problem in themselves, which is lack of confidence. If they fail, they will refuse to have another try. Then they will never ever have the chance to overcome difficulties.

人们普遍认为，自信在个人的生活中扮演着重要的角色。但你知道“自信”指的究竟是什么吗？它意味着你非常相信自己能把事情做好。如果你想做好某事，那么你就得对自己有信心。俗话说得好：自信是通向成功之路的第一步。否则，你很难成功。有些人很喜欢抱怨自己是多么的无能；或者他们的任务是多么的艰难。这些都是缺乏自信的表现。如果他们失败了，就拒绝再试一次。如此，他们便失去了克服困难的机会。

There are several reasons why people feel no confidence about themselves when they meet the challenges. First of all, they underestimate themselves. Second, they tend to overestimate the problems that in front of them. Last but not least, they are afraid of losing their face or making terrible mistakes if they fail.

当人们面对挑战的时候之所以会不自信，有如下的几个原因。首先，他们低估了自己的能力；其次，又高估了所面对的困难。最后一点，他们害怕丢脸或是被他人嘲笑，如果他们真的失败了的话。

There are many ways for us to build up self-confidence. Emerson used to say: “Self-trust is the first secret of success.” Before we do something, we should make full preparations and try to encourage ourselves that we will success. If we fail, don’t be afraid, try again; or turn to others for help. If we can overcome the adversities this time, then we will gain some confidence. Step by step, we would become more and more confident. We should have a right attitude toward our abilities and should never look down upon ourselves. The chief thing to remember is: failure is the mother of success.

塑造信心有很多种方式。艾默生曾经说过：“自信是成功的第一秘诀”。在我们做事情之前，先做好充分准备并尽量鼓励自己，相信自己会成功。如果我们失败了，也别害怕，再试一次；或者像他人求助。如果这一次我们能够克服困难，那么，我们的自信心就会增加。一步一步的，就会变得越来越自信。对自己的能力，也应该有个正确的态度，不要低估自己的能力。最需谨记的是：失败是成功之母。