美国孩子如何看热门视频：Facebook与父母

Teens React to viral videos, This Episode: Facebook Parenting

青少年如何看待热门视频 这一集：Facebook与父母

This is for my daughter hanna, and more importantly for all her friends on facebook who thought that her little rebellious post is cute. Oh, I see this. This is the best thing ever, i wish more parents would do this. I wanna read you one. I took off my daughter's facebook wall. She thought she's being smart, blocking her parents be unable to see it. To my parents: I'm not your damn slave, it's not my responsibility to clean up your *shit*. Seriously? Are you kidding me. Everyday when I get home from school, I had to do dishes, clean the countertops, all the floors, make all the beds, do laundry, and get the trash. I'm gonna hate to see the day, when you get too old to wipe your ass, and you call me asking for help, I won't be there.

这是给我女儿汉娜看的，更重要的是给那些在Facebook上支持她写反叛帖子的朋友们。哦，我看过这个。我很支持这个，我希望更多的父母能这么做。我给大家读一篇。我打印了女儿的“涂鸦墙。她自认为很聪明。以为屏蔽了我就会看不到。写给我的父母：我TM不是你的奴隶，给你打理这些狗屁事情不是我的责任。你认真的？开什么玩笑！每天我从学校里回来。我得洗盘子，清理厨房，拖地板，整理床，洗衣服，倒垃圾。我不希望有一天等你老得连屁股都擦不了的时候。来求我帮忙，我是不会帮的。

That is so mean. I warned you a month ago, what would happen, if you do something like this on facebook again, gonna be a lot worse. I don't know how to say how disappointed I am at you. But as soon as I'm done, I'm gonna post this on your facebook wall. Here it comes. That right there is your laptop. This right here is my .45. Oh my gosh! He's going to work. Hope you enjoy your little fiasco on facebook, hope it's worth all this. That was awesome! That was scary. Why does he even have a gun? What...ok, ask me the questions please.

这太坏了。一个月前我就警告过你，如果我再在Facebook上。看到这些，后果会更严重。我已经无法表达我对你有多么的失望。等我拍完这个，我就会发布到你的“涂鸦墙上。要开始了。那个是你的笔记本。这个是我的点45手枪。我的天！他还真做了。希望你在Facebook上闹得开心，希望你觉得一切都是值得的。这太棒了！有点恐怖。他怎么会有把枪？怎么...好吧，你们提问吧。

Question Time

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So, can you explain what was happening in the video? A girl was really disrespectful to her parents wrote a really nasty note on facebook about her family. Dad found out and he got mad, cause apparently happened before. Then he got out his gun and thought kill the computer. I know how to shoot a gun, I'll do that to my kids one day. Was he right for him to shoot the laptop? No, he should like gone to her. No, shooting the laptop is too far. There is nothing justify about that. That was the best part. It was just like the cherry on top. If he bought it for her, I guess you can shot the things you buy.

你能解释视频里发生了什么吗？一个女孩很不尊重她的父母。在Facebook上写了一篇很糟的关于他家人的帖子。她爸发现了很生气，显然她以前也这么干过。然后便拿出他的枪“杀掉了电脑。我知道怎么射击，以后我也会对我的孩子做同样的事情。他对着电脑开枪，这么做对吗？不，他应该直接找她谈话。不，朝笔记本开枪做得太过了不，朝笔记本开枪做得太过了。这样做也并不是公正公平的。那是最精彩的部分，完全是锦上添花。如果是他给买的，我想你有权射击你买的东西。

Does she have rights to be upset, base on what she mentioned on the letter? Will they justifiable things to be mad her parents about? Honestly, yea, that's like a lot of crap she has to go though. I don't think so. she has trolls, big deal, it's just typical things you do at your home. You kinda clean up after yourself. As long as her father keeping her in a little cabin under the stairs. Teen age girls seem to overreact everything. Whatever happened to the time when you suppost to respectful to you parents? You didn't complain when they tell you to do your stuff. You didn't, I'm being really hypocriteright here.

根据她写的那些事情，她有权生气吗？她有权对她的父母那么生气吗？说实话，是的，她好像要做很多事情。我不这么认为，就是些家务，有什么大不了的！只是一些很平常的家务活。你得自己打理好自己的事情。又不是他老爸让她住在楼梯下的黑房里。女孩对所有的事情都反应过度。以前那些尊重父母的好习俗都哪里去了。你不应该抱怨，而是听从父母的指挥。你不应该...我好像有点太虚伪了。

Do you think it's ok for her to post that on facebook at all? No, I think that's really immatureof her to do. I would never post anything about my home life or my personal life on facebook. Because facebook isn't my diary. That's what social media does, you think you can say anything. Cause you behind the computer screen, she's gonna be careful. Cause obviously her dad can see it.

你认为她在Facebook上贴这种文章是对的吗？不，我会认为她很不成熟。我永远都不会在Facebook上写些私人的事情。因为Facebook不是我的日记。社交媒体会让人以为说话可以毫无顾忌。因为你躲在屏幕后面，但她得小心。显然她爸可以看得到。

Do you think it's right for the dad to post this on her facebook wall? Absolutely not. I would say so, after what she wrote, yes. So many kids I feel like taking advantage of their parents. He actually did something, I feel kinda respect for this guy. How do you think the daughter reacted when she saw this video? She probably lost it. I bet she's freaking out. I would be histrionic/ I kinda wanna be there when she saw that on her wall. I won't be surprised if she's like killed herself or sth. I know that's like really really intense. Although how would she see it through, if she didn't have her laptop. That's sth to think about.

你认为他爸贴这段视频在她的“涂鸦墙上合适吗？当然不合适。我认为可以。看完她写的那些，合适。很多孩子现在对父母都不尊重。他却采取了行动，我现在很尊重这位爸爸。你认为那个女孩看到这个后会是什么反应？估计她会疯，我肯定她会疯掉。我肯定会歇斯底里的。我倒是有点想看看她会是什么反应。即使她选择自杀什么的我都不会觉得很惊讶。我知道这听起来很夸张。不过现在她没了笔记本，她怎么能够看得到？你有想过吗？

Do you think she'll learn her lesson from this? I hope she would have. Yea, definitely. No, probably not. Not one bit. She probably do it again, she's a kid. we made the same mistake over over again. I think when you put restriction on people, all they gonna do is try to break the restriction. What would you do if your parents punish you by putting bullets in your laptop? I think I'll laugh. I'll be so bummed out. I'll be like, seriously dad? What the hell? I'll go on the biggest non-talking spree ever. I have 3 brothers, we all have own computers. I'll take my brother's computer, I'll be like get away. I'll call police, say my parents just went crazy. I need somewhere else to go.

你认为她会吸取教训吗？希望她会。是的，一定会。不，可能不会。不可能。估计她还会再犯，她还是个孩子 我们总会不停的犯同样的错误。当你想约束某人是，他们总会有办法来逃脱。如果你的父母为了惩罚你对你的笔记本开枪，你会怎么做？我估计会笑。我会很失落。我会说：“爸！不是吧！搞什么？我会跟他们冷战好长一段时间。我有3个兄弟，都有电脑。我会去霸占一台，然后让他走开。我会报警说我父母发疯了。我需要去别的地方避难。

Do you think parents should able to see what their kids do on social network? If the kids doing sth they shouldn't, they don't wanna their parents to see then. Maybe they shouldn't be posting it at all. No,you should let them to live to the certain extend. That's invasion of privacy, they should trust us. No, they parents shouldn't see it. But then again if you add your mom, it's your own fault. Do you let your parents have access to your facebook? I'm friends with my mom on my facebook. My mom has facebook, I'm friends with her on facebook, she starts commenting on my pictures, it's so embarrassing, it's terrible, I delete my mom as a friend. I block dad couple of weeks ago. I blocked my mom, my dad doesn't has a facebook, cause he's old, doesn't know how to do it. I love you dad, probably gonna ground after this.

你认为父母应该监视孩子在社交网络上做什么吗？如果孩子做了不该做的事情，不想让父母知道。就不应该发布在网络上。不，应该让他们有自己的私人空间。这是侵犯隐私，他们应该信任我们。不，父母不应该看到。但如果你加了妈妈为好友，那是你的错。你有让你的父母进入你的Facebook吗？我和我妈在Facebook上是好友。我妈在Facebook上，我和她是好友，然后她开始评论我的照片，真的很尴尬，很糟糕，我从好友里删除了我妈。我几星期前屏蔽了我爸。我屏蔽了我妈，我爸没有Facebook。因为他年纪大，不知道怎么弄。我爱你老爸！估计我得被关禁闭了。

How do you think parents react when they see this video? I think parents can relate to that feeling. Probably like kids are so disrespectful nowadays. They always say, honey, you can talk to me whenever you need to, I'll be there to listen. No! parents, they do not listen to you. It's either their way or the highway. I feel like, the liberal parents they'll like, oh god! The poor child. But if you like republican, they'll like, yeah! Do you think it's a possibility there's gonna be influxes of parents destroy their children's property for punishment? Probably, probably in the south. It's gonna cause like endless cycle of disaster. The parents gonna be gun toting all the time, so what if you piss them off one day, they'll be like...

你认为父母们看到这个视频会是什么反应？我想他们会能理解这种心情。估计会说，现在的孩子真是没大没小。他们总说，你可以随时来找我谈心，我会倾听你的心声。不！父母从来就不会听你的。要么听他们的，要么就滚蛋。我觉得开明点的父母会说，天啊！可怜的孩子。保守点的父母会很赞同他。你觉得会有父母跟风以摧毁孩子的财产来作为惩罚的手段吗？可能，南方可能会有。这会造成永无止境的灾难。父母们会不停的举枪。万一你哪天惹怒了他们，他们就会...

How do you think teens react? I get it, that was very funny. That's me! I'm a teen, I react. 2 reactions. OMG! I feel so sorry. Or, OMG! This is historical. Which will be my reaction. They probably sympathize with Hanna? Teens probably all on the girl's side. I'm not on the girl's side at all. I think a lot teens might think it's lame. I think it's awesome! Does this video make you think twice about doing things online your parents might not approve of? Yes, absolutely. I already think that way, because my dad already come to me. He's like, Adam, we need to talk. No, it hasn't affected me at all. No, I'm still gonna do it. If the dad is here right now, what would you say to him? I love you. I'll give him the biggest, and best high five. I would say nothing to him, cause I don't know where that gun is? I would argue with him, he will probably take his gun to me. You're freaking nuts, you shot your daughter's laptop, you're paying for that, ok? You are awesome! My man! Rock!

你认为青少年会有什么反应？我明白了，很搞笑。那不就是我吗！我是青少年，我的反应。两种反应：我的天！我很抱歉！或者，我的天！这太经典了！这个也是我的反应。他们会很同情汉娜。青少年估计都会站在女孩这边。我是不支持这个女孩的。我想大多都会认为这样很烂。但我认为这样很好。这个视频会影响你在网络上的行为吗？ 那些你父母可能会不赞成的行为。是的，肯定的。我已经是这样了，我爸已经找过我。说：亚当，我们得谈谈。不，完全不会影响我。不，我还是会做。如果这个爸爸现在在这儿，你会对他说什么？我爱你。我会给他一个很完美的击掌。我什么都不会说，因为我不知道他的枪在哪儿。我会和他吵，他会拿出他的枪指着我。你是个疯子，你朝你女儿的电脑开枪，我得赔偿，OK？我太棒了！厉害！

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