Unit 3 My Un-wedding Day The local bishop in the western Canadian city of Nelson, was going to perform the ceremony. July 18, 1987, would be the day, just before my 37th birthday, when I would get married for the first time. Her name was Helen. She was a hairstylist, and we had met in Cuba in March 1986. Three months later, we were engaged. Then, in her Vancouver flat 11 months later, she said she couldn't marry me. The drive back to my home was an endless journey of destructive emotions and thoughts. The hurt had already set in, but the humiliation was still ahead. "Yes, time will heal the pain." I told friends. I vowed it would be a long time before I let myself be hurt like that again. But I came to understand that the prospect of leaving her family, friends and job must have scared her deeply. Better before the marriage than after. As the date of our wedding approached, I decided that I still wanted it to be a special day. Rather than spending it dwelling on what might have been, I wanted to celebrate my friendships with all the people who would have been at the party. I had wedding-style invitations printed: "Mr. Raymond Turchansky will not be getting married on Saturday, July 18, 1987. So he requests the honor of your presence at the party on that day. Lunch and Champagne at 4 pm". The party was a blast. I wore a tuxedo, had my photo taken with my brother, Larry, who would have been my best man. I played Pachelbel's Canon, a piece I wanted to be my wedding music, a piece she had dismissed as "nice music to dust by". Some 40 people came -- friends, family, colleagues and neighbors. They brought a cake -- with just a groom on it -- reading, "Oh, it's great to be single." Rather than roses, they offered stinkweed. We ate. We drank. And best of all, we laughed. A month later, I was covering the Canadian Amateur Gold Championship. Filling in for another reporter who couldn't make it at the last minute was a woman named Lorraine. She already had a cassette tape filled with versions of Pachelbel's Canon. She wanted to learn how to play golf. She said I made her laugh. I knew that would be the start of a beautiful friendship. Two years later, we spent our honeymoon along the Mississippi River. When Lorraine says she will marry a person, she does it. I like that in a woman. We recently revisited the American South for our tenth anniversary. Our sons are eight and six years old, and only every second or third day do they say we are the worst parents in the world. As for Helen, I haven't seen her since I drove off into that Vancouver fog.
2017届高考英语总复习闯关密训卷 Unit3《Under the sea》选修7
2017届高考英语总复习闯关密训卷 Unit3《Australia》选修9
2017届高考英语总复习闯关密训卷 Unit5《The power of nature》选修6
2017届高考英语总复习闯关密训卷 Unit2《King Lear》选修10
2017届高考英语总复习闯关密训卷 Unit1《Breaking records》选修9
2017届高考英语总复习闯关密训卷 Unit 5《Theme parks》必修4
2017届高考英语总复习闯关密训卷 Unit2《Sailing the oceans》选修9
2017届高考英语总复习闯关密训卷 Unit4《Exploring plants》选修9
2017届高考英语总复习闯关密训卷 Unit3《Fairness for all》选修10
2017高考英语备考复习课件:动词的时态和语态课件
2017届高考英语总复习闯关密训卷专题Unit4《Wildlife protection》必修2
2017届高考英语总复习闯关密训卷 Unit1《Nothing ventured, nothing gained》选修10
2017届高考英语总复习闯关密训卷专题Unit5《Music》必修2
2017届高考英语总复习闯关密训卷 Unit4《Body language》必修4
2017届高考英语总复习闯关密训卷 Unit1《A land of diversity》选修8
2017高考英语备考复习课件:动词的时态和语态
2017高考英语备考复习课件:非谓语动词6
2017届高考英语总复习闯关密训卷 Unit1《Living well》选修7
2017届高考英语总复习闯关密训卷 Unit4《Sharing》选修7
2017届高考英语总复习闯关密训卷 Unit5《Canada—“The True North”》必修3
2017高考英语备考复习课件:非谓语动词
2017届高考英语总复习闯关密训卷 Unit4《Global warming》选修6
2017届高考英语总复习闯关密训卷 Unit3《Life in the future》必修5
2017届高考英语总复习闯关密训卷 Unit3《A healthy life》选修6
2017届高考英语总复习闯关密训卷 Unit1《Great scientists》必修5
2017届高考英语总复习闯关密训卷 Unit1《Festivals around the world》必修3
2017届高考英语总复习闯关密训卷 Unit2《Cloning》选修8
2017届高考英语总复习闯关密训卷 Unit3《The Million Pound Bank Note》必修3
2017届高考英语总复习闯关密训卷 Unit2《Working the land》必修4
2017届高考英语总复习闯关密训卷 Unit5《Meeting your ancestors》选修8
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