学会放手

一首完整的歌曲总有低音响应，一首完整的诗歌总有恋情显现，一场完整的人生总有低谷出现，所以世事总是不完美的。不去祈求一帆风顺的人生，因为那样的人生太单调无味。当我们走在路上摔了一跤就如同生活的道路上出现一个洼坑时，请你们学会放手，让我自己站起来学会坚强。

A complete song always has a bass response, a complete poem always has a love show, a complete life always has a trough, so things are always imperfect. Do not pray for a smooth life, because that life is too monotonous. When we fall on the road like a hole in the road of life, please learn to let go, let me stand up and learn to be strong.

曾几何时，你们是那么地宠我、疼我、依我、捧我、让我。像众星捧月般，你们把我的光芒放射了很多倍。其实，我只是一棵微暗的星而已。你们对我的骄纵让我看不清自己，让我估摸不到自己的价值，让我在人生的道路上迷失了自己。

Once upon a time, you are so pet me, hurt me, according to me, hold me, let me. Like the stars and the moon, you radiate my light many times. In fact, I am just a faint star. Your arrogance to me makes me unable to see myself clearly, to estimate my own value, and to lose myself on the road of life.

我知道你们是怕我有任何闪失，你们对我倾注了毕生的心血，只是希望我能有一个美好的人生。你们不希望我伤心、我难过，你们总想用尽你们的全力来使我的人生一帆风顺。你们总是倾尽所有让我在人生的道路上尽可能的不摔倒，一路平坦地走到生命的尽头。

I know you are afraid that I have any slip, you devoted your whole life to me, just hope I can have a better life. You don't want me to be sad or sad. You always want to do your best to make my life smooth. You always try your best to keep me from falling down on the road of life and walk to the end of life smoothly.

可是，你们想过以后的日子吗？在你们的有生之年我可以过得无比的潇洒自如与快乐，但在百年之后我却如同一个刚出生的婴儿一般什么也不知什么也不懂，我该怎样去过以后的人生？所以，在我摔倒的时候，请不要惊慌也不要伸出你的手来扶我，让我自己站起来，学会坚强。

But have you thought about the future? In your lifetime, I can live a very natural and happy life, but after a hundred years, I just like a newborn baby, I don't know anything. How can I go to the future life? So, when I fall, please don't panic or extend your hand to help me, let me stand up and learn to be strong.

请你们学会放手，就像鹰妈妈一样。是鹰就该展翅于蓝天高空之上，所以鹰妈妈在他们的孩子小的时候就让他们不停的学会飞翔，学会生存的技术。因为人生的路很长很长，你们不可能完整的陪我走过人生这一漫长而艰辛的路程。所以在我们小的时候让我们学会独立，学会用自己的方式处理自己的事情，学会用自己的智慧解决自己的问题。

Please learn to let go, just like mother eagle. It's the eagle that should spread its wings above the blue sky. So when their children were young, their mother made them learn to fly and survive. Because the road of life is very long, you can't completely accompany me through the long and hard journey of life. So when we were young, let's learn to be independent, to deal with our own affairs in our own way, and to solve our own problems with our own wisdom.

请你们学会放手，就像蒲公英妈妈一样。蒲公英种子都有自己的翅膀，蒲公英妈妈不会把自己的孩子留在身边，而是让他们随风飘荡去寻找适合自己的天地，然后在那里生根发芽茁壮成长。所以，你们应该让我们去寻找一片自己的天空而不要按照你们给我们安排的路走下去。我们不是盆景，不需要精心的设计与安排，我们都有自己的思维。请你们学会放手，如果你们真的是为我们着想。为了我们能有一个完整的人生，请你们学会放手，让我们自己展翅飞翔！

Please learn to let go, just like mother dandelion. Dandelion seeds have their own wings, dandelion mothers will not leave their children around, but let them drift in the wind to find a suitable world for themselves, and then take root, sprout and thrive there. Therefore, you should let us find a piece of our own sky instead of following the path you arranged for us. We are not bonsai, do not need careful design and arrangement, we all have our own thinking. Please learn to let go if you really think about us. In order for us to have a complete life, please learn to let go, let us fly!