写给儿子

孩子：

Children:

今天过完你十六岁的生日后，母亲我的心里一直不能平静，再次来到你的房间，望着你熟睡的面孔，听着午夜的钟声，妈妈的心中有好多的话想对你说……

Today, after your 16th birthday, my mother and I couldn't calm down. I came to your room again and looked at your sleeping face. Listening to the midnight bell, my mother had a lot of words to say to you

儿，回望已逝的日子，妈妈抚育你成长有多少辛酸、多少泪水，妈妈都觉得很值！因为你是妈妈的整个世界，是妈妈全部的爱。但是从此以后，妈妈不会再像以前那样宠你、爱你，妈妈决定选择放手，放手让你飞翔，以后再多的风雨只能你自己来承受。儿，你能理解妈妈的爱吗？

Son, looking back on the days that have passed, how much bitterness and tears your mother has brought you up, she thinks it's worth it! Because you are mom's whole world, mom's whole love. But from then on, my mother will not spoil you and love you as before. My mother decided to let go and let you fly. In the future, more storms can only be borne by yourself. Son, can you understand mother's love?

还记得你小时候妈妈给你讲过得鹰的故事吗？鹰为了让儿子长大后能独立生存从小就开始让它不停的摔跤，不停的遭遇这样那样的磨难。老鹰的这种做法几近残酷，但正是这样，却才有了鹰生存下来的资本啊！儿，那时你问我你会不会像小鹰一样受苦受难，妈妈现在告诉你答案：你会！因为你不能一辈子都生活在妈妈的庇护下，想要真正的成长起来，你就会遭受挫折，就会不停地摔跤。想要在这个竞争残酷的世界上立足于不败之地，这是你最好的选择。儿，俗话说：摔在儿身，疼在娘心。你小时候每一次摔倒痛哭时，娘都有一种心碎的感觉。因为妈妈太爱你了。妈妈想一辈子都保护你，保护你远离伤害，但那样若有一天妈永远的离开你之后，你还怎么在这个世界上生存呢？

Remember when your mother told you the story of eagle? Eagle in order to let his son grow up to survive on his own since he was a child began to let it keep wrestling, keep encountering such and such tribulations. This kind of practice of eagles is almost cruel, but it is just like this that they have the capital to survive! Son, at that time you asked me if you would suffer like a little eagle. Now my mother tells you the answer: you will! Because you can't live under your mother's protection all your life. If you want to grow up, you will suffer setbacks and wrestle constantly. It's your best choice to be invincible in this competitive world. Er, as the saying goes: fall on your body, pain on your mother's heart. Every time you fell down and cried when you were a child, my mother had a feeling of heartbreak. Because mom loves you so much. Mom wants to protect you and protect you from harm all her life, but how can you survive in the world if Mom leaves you forever?

人们常说：平静的湖面练不出精悍的水手，安逸的生活造不出时代的伟人。在你十六岁生日的这一天，妈妈决定从此放手，让你在生活的海洋中尽情遨游，在成长的蓝天里自由飞翔。妈妈只希望你做生活的强者，做命运的强者，妈还想告诉你：摔跤并不可怕，可怕的是你一跤摔倒之后从此不再爬起。艰辛知人生。在摔跤中你可以真正的长大，真正的懂得做生活的强者，懂得生活的真谛。儿，离开妈妈的怀抱，放心去飞吧!

It is often said that a calm lake can't train a strong sailor, and a comfortable life can't make a great man of the times. On your 16th birthday, my mother decided to let go, let you roam in the ocean of life and fly freely in the growing blue sky. Mom just wants you to be a strong person in life and destiny. She also wants to tell you that wrestling is not terrible. What's terrible is that you don't get up after you fall. Hard life. In wrestling, you can really grow up, really know how to be a strong person in life and understand the essence of life. Son, get out of my mother's arms and fly!

儿，梅花香自苦寒，瀑布的壮丽源于那千尺之涯，生命也一样。要想拥有一次美丽的花期，拥有一个无悔的人生，你就必须不怕摔跤，但愿你能理解妈妈对你的爱！

Son, the plum blossom fragrance comes from the bitter cold, the magnificent waterfall comes from the thousands of feet, so does life. If you want to have a beautiful flower season and a regretless life, you must not be afraid of wrestling. I hope you can understand your mother's love for you!

母亲

mother