多一些空间，少一些关注

梅花只有经历风雪的洗礼，才能傲立于枝头飘洒怡人清香。

Only through the baptism of wind and snow can plum blossom stand proudly on the branch and spread pleasant fragrance.

珍珠只有经历海蚌的磨砺，才能造就盈泪宝珠，散发夺目光彩。

Only when pearl is tempered by sea clam can it make a pearl full of tears and shine brilliantly.

海燕只有经历暴风的沐浴，才能振翅于蓝天，释放生命的振奋。

Only through the bathing of the storm can petrel soar in the blue sky and release the excitement of life.

大自然的万物尚且学会接受挑战，迎接挫折，让生命更显魅力，那么作为万物灵长的人类，又何尝不需要给年轻的一代更多的锻炼与自强的机会，让他们多一些自我空间，少一些外界关注和溺爱呢？

All things in nature still learn to accept challenges, meet setbacks, and make life more attractive. So, as the intelligent human beings of all things, why don't we give the young generation more opportunities to exercise and self-improvement, let them have more self space, less external attention and indulgence?

年轻的一代作为祖国的希望，的确需要受到恰当的关怀与爱护，但更重要的是多给他们一些成长空间，少一些过度的关注，让他们在关爱的呵护中和自强的历程中健康发展。只有这样，才更有利于孩子的成长和发展。

As the hope of the motherland, the young generation really needs to be properly cared for and cared for, but more importantly, they need to be given more room for growth and less excessive attention, so that they can develop healthily in the care of love and the course of self-improvement. Only in this way can it be more conducive to the growth and development of children.

作为家长，必须有正确教育和关爱孩子的方法。既让孩子得到关爱，又不溺爱孩子；要培养孩子的自立与自强品质。前南非总统曼德拉曾在狱中生活几十年，在这期间他无法陪在女儿身边细心照顾她。但他坚持以书信的方式保持与女儿的交流，既温馨呵护女儿的成长，又不停教导女儿如何学会自立与自强，最终女儿成为一名出色的资讯工作者。试想缺少对女儿的教育，或许会是另一种结果吧！许多事实无不印证着一个道理：只有适度的关爱和恰当的教育方法才能引导孩子健康成长。

As parents, there must be the right way to educate and care for children. Not only let children get care, but also do not dote on them; to cultivate their self-reliance and self-improvement quality. Former South African President Nelson Mandela has lived in prison for decades, during which he was unable to accompany his daughter to take care of her. But he insisted on the communication with his daughter by letter, which not only cared for her growth, but also taught her how to learn to be independent and self-improvement. Finally, her daughter became an outstanding journalist. Think of the lack of education for your daughter as another result! Many facts prove that only moderate care and appropriate education methods can guide children to grow up healthily.

相反，如果一味宠爱，父母对孩子有求必应，又会有什么样的情况呢?前不久曾沸扬于一时的“杨丽娟追星事件”难道不值得我们深思吗？她的父亲对她百依百顺，为了满足女儿的愿望，最后不惜自己的生命来完成女儿的追星的要求，这不也正反映了社会中存在对孩子溺爱与过度关注的现象吗？如果只一味溺爱孩子，缺少正确的教育方法，只能危害孩子的成长，使其无法走向健康成长的道路。因此，必须多一些成长的空间，少一些关注。

On the contrary, what happens when parents are all in favor of their children? Isn't the "star chasing incident of Yang Lijuan" that was once popular for a while worth our thinking? Her father is obedient to her, in order to meet her daughter's wishes, and finally at the cost of his own life to complete the pursuit of her daughter's star, which is not also a reflection of the phenomenon of doting on children and excessive attention in the society? If we only indulge our children and lack of correct education methods, we can only harm their growth and make them unable to go to the path of healthy growth. Therefore, there must be more room for growth and less attention.

作为社会和学校，也应该多留给孩子一些自我成长和自立自强的机会，让他们得以健康和完善的发展与成长。

As a society and school, children should also be given more opportunities for self-development and self-reliance, so that they can develop and grow healthily and perfectly.

是雄鹰，就应该搏击于长空，接受暴风雨的洗礼。

If you are an eagle, you should fight in the sky and be baptized by the storm.

是蛟龙，就应该叱咤于深水，成就生命的灵性。

If it is a dragon, it should master the deep water and achieve the spirit of life.

是猛虎，就应该腾跃于丛岭，展现生命的昂扬。

If it is a tiger, it should leap in the Congling mountains to show its life.

那么就请多给孩子一些空间，少一些对他们过分的关注吧！

So please give more space and less attention to children!