摔跤后的宣言

面对摔了一跤后引发的关注，我想问一下，

In the face of the attention caused by a fall, I would like to ask,

为什么要关注我的摔跤？

Why pay attention to my wrestling?

为什么只关注我的摔跤？

Why only focus on my wrestling?

为什么要等到我摔倒了才来关注?

Why wait until I fall down to pay attention?

我知道，作为祖国新一代，我们背后有无数双关注的眼睛，但一次次的关注事件让我想问：你们的过多关注是正确的吗？你们正确地关注我们了吗？

I know that as a new generation of the motherland, we have countless eyes behind us, but time after time, I want to ask: is it right that you pay too much attention? Do you pay attention to us correctly?

首先，从关注的范围过大看，有些关注的确是多余的。拿摔跤这一事件来说吧，人走路谁没有摔跤的经历，至于那么杞人忧天吗？你们关心我们的学习与生活，我们感激不尽，但过多的关心只能是束缚我们前进的锁链。我们只想在天地间无忧无虑地尽心地走，摔倒了再爬起来。看看地形以防再摔。然后立刻继续前进。而你们就不应该在溪流的短暂停滞处再建个水坝，你一句我一句的教导一番再放行。

First of all, from the perspective of the scope of concern, some concerns are indeed superfluous. Take wrestling as an example. Who has no experience of wrestling when walking? Are you worried about it? We are grateful that you care about our study and life, but too much care can only be the chain that binds us forward. We just want to walk carefree between heaven and earth, fall down and get up again. Look at the terrain in case you fall again. Then move on at once. And you should not build another dam at the temporary stagnation of the stream. You should teach me one sentence and let me go.

其次，关注的对象有时太有限。我们不是摔跟头长大的，关注的也不应只是摔跤。我们的成长是吃饭、睡觉、学习、娱乐以及不时的烦恼与年少的莫名的闲愁以及早年心理阴影留下的负作用，甚至是无病呻吟，自哀自怜。我们快乐向上也有时消沉；我们乐观活泼有时也陷入沉思；我们有时很马虎，有时也很认真。所以关注我们不应是只关心我们的失落与错误；不应该只是关注我们的消沉与堕落；多关注我们的阳光与荣耀吧，我们会因此而备受鼓舞。

Second, the focus is sometimes too limited. We didn't grow up by falling. We should not only focus on wrestling. Our growth is to eat, sleep, study, entertain, worry from time to time and inexplicable idle worry of youth, and the negative effect left by the psychological shadow of early years, even moan without illness and self pity. We are happy and up and down; we are optimistic and lively and sometimes deep in thought; we are sometimes careless and sometimes serious. Therefore, we should not only focus on our loss and mistakes; we should not only focus on our depression and degradation; pay more attention to our sunshine and glory, and we will be inspired.

最后，从关注的技巧上看，防患于未然乃是最有效的方法。虽然只有亲身经历和承受了错误带给我们的后果，我们才会更深切的认识错误，纠正错误。但我们深切地希望你们是不变的导航灯，是亲切的向导，而不是我们犯错后的警示灯。青春是叛逆的也是经常犯混的，我们可能会明知故犯，但你们的教导也不应因噎废食，在我们的心中，你们仍旧是向导，是导师，是迷路时的路标，灯塔。

Finally, from the perspective of attention skills, prevention is the most effective way. Although we have to experience and bear the consequences of our mistakes, we will have a deeper understanding of them and correct them. But we deeply hope that you are the constant navigation lights and friendly guides, not the warning lights after our mistakes. Youth is rebellious and often promiscuous. We may knowingly do so, but your teaching should not be abandoned. In our hearts, you are still a guide, a mentor, a signpost and a lighthouse when we are lost.

你们的关心，我们很感动。但你们过多的关注，扭曲的关注，方法不恰当的关注我们难以接受。

We are very touched by your concern. But we can't accept your excessive attention, distorted attention and improper method.

亲爱的家人，亲爱的老师和社会的朋友，我真心的希望，下次别关注我的摔跤，别只关注我的摔跤，下次不要等到我摔跤了再提醒。我们年轻，也可以有为。也可以安稳走路的，也同样需要关心，请正确地关注我们！

Dear family, dear teachers and social friends, I sincerely hope that next time don't pay attention to my wrestling, don't only pay attention to my wrestling, next time don't wait until I wrestle to remind. We are young and we can do something. Can also walk safely, also need to care about, please pay attention to us correctly!