有一种爱叫放手

不离开鹰巢的雏鹰永远都学不会飞翔，不离开母亲庇护下的小树永远都不能成长茁壮。对于我们人来说也是如此，所以又一种爱叫放手。

The young eagle who does not leave the nest will never learn to fly, and the small tree under the protection of his mother will never grow and thrive. It's the same for us, so let go is another kind of love.

昔触龙说赵太后，赵太后放手，长安君才有功于国，在逆境中成长。今起岁女孩，父亲放手，独自跑遍大江南北，在困境中学会独立，学会待人处事。詹天佑自小赴美留学，父亲含泪放手，在异国的他，刻苦努力，回国后坚韧的信念让他修成了中国人自己的第一条铁路——京张铁路。正是有了放手的爱，才让他信念坚定的报效祖国家。

The old emperor said that empress Zhao had to let go of her, and that Chang'an was only able to contribute to the country and grow up in adversity. This year's old girl, her father let go and ran all over the country alone. She learned to be independent and deal with others when she was in trouble. Zhan Tianyou went to study in the United States when he was a child. His father let go with tears. He worked hard in a foreign country. After returning home, his firm belief made him build the first railway of the Chinese people -- Beijing Zhangjiakou Railway. It is the love of letting go that makes him firmly believe in serving his ancestral country.

放手不是放任，放手的爱，是让孩子在自由的空间中成长，让他们的天性不被世故磨灭。放手的爱，是在我们迷路时的一声召唤；放手的爱，是在我们经历挫折而悲伤不已时的一次劝慰；放手的爱，是在我们即将踏上征途时的鼓励的话；放手的爱，是在我们迷茫时坚定的支持┅┅

Let go is not to let go, let go of love, is to let children grow up in a free space, so that their nature will not be destroyed by the world. Let go of love is a call when we are lost; let go of love is a consolation when we are sad because of setbacks; let go of love is a word of encouragement when we are about to embark on a journey; let go of love is a firm support when we are confused

没有爱，世界成坟墓。裴多菲的诗让我明白世界是充满阳光的，是生机勃勃的。爱，是父母离别时的叮咛；爱，是老师眼里的批评；爱，是同学间相互的关心；爱，是陌生人投来善意的目光┅┅人间自有真情在，人人都在付出爱。

Without love, the world is a grave. Pei's poems let me understand that the world is full of sunshine and full of vitality. Love is the exhortation of parents when they leave; love is the criticism in the eyes of teachers; love is the mutual care of students; love is the kind eyes of strangers... There is a real love in the world, everyone is paying love.

我们都需要爱，无论是爱别人，还是接受爱，但爱需要有限度。有一种鸟，用带有坚硬刺的木枝作巢，用羽毛、柳絮作铺，让巢柔软。当雏鸟长成后便将那些东西全部撤去，留下坚硬的树枝，还逼雏鸟离开树枝。当雏鸟下坠之时，它们经历痛苦害怕便拼命挥舞翅膀，从此学会飞翔，爱不是把花儿捧在手心，而是让它经历风雨，接受阳光，爱不是一味的把孩子养在身边，而是让他们去历练，感受人生的酸甜苦辣，如风筝般飞翔。爱不是错误之后猛烈的批评，而是耐心帮助孩子指出缺点，认真克服，不再重犯。

We all need love, whether it's to love others or to accept love, but love needs to be limited. There is a kind of bird that makes its nest with wood branches with hard thorns, and makes its nest soft with feathers and catkins. When the chicks grow up, they remove all those things, leaving a hard branch and forcing the chicks to leave the branch. When the chicks fall, they experience pain and fear and wave their wings desperately. From then on, they learn to fly. Love is not holding the flowers in the palm of their hands, but letting them experience the wind and rain, accepting the sunshine. Love is not just keeping the children around, but letting them experience the bitterness of life, flying like a kite. Love is not fierce criticism after mistakes, but patience to help children point out shortcomings, seriously overcome, and no longer repeat.

风筝自由自在，却总有一根绳子在牵挂，让它在天空中不寂寞，不孤单。不会在风雨之中飘荡。真正的爱便是如此，牵手也放手。只是当他在飞翔之时，不过分限制绳长，让爱进行到底。

Kite is free, but there is always a rope in mind, so that it is not lonely in the sky, not alone. Not in the wind and rain. True love is so, hand in hand also let go. It's just that when he's flying, he doesn't limit the length of the rope too much and let love go on to the end.

有一种爱叫放手，有一种爱不放手。真爱无言可表。

There is a love called let go, there is a love not let go. True love is unspeakable.