信他，抑或信己

裹身在这个物欲横流的社会，穿栖在信息交织如网的时代，面对每天如潮涌的言语，我们该信谁呢？信他，抑或信己？

In this materialistic society, in the era of information intertwined, in the face of everyday words, who should we believe? Trust him or yourself?

有人说：走自己的路，让别人去说吧！

Some people say: go your own way, let others say it!

还有人说：常问路的人不会迷失方向。

Others say that people who ask for directions often don't get lost.

俯首是春，仰首是秋；月圆是话，月缺是诗。每个人都有自己的道理，行走在岁月的流年中，我们应该相信自己，同时也要听取别人的意见。

Bowing is spring, looking up is autumn; full moon is words, lack of moon is poetry. Everyone has his own reason. When walking in the fleeting years, we should believe in ourselves and listen to others' opinions.

相信自己，我们可以竖一方碑基，在人生的行程中。相信自己，即使在风浪翻涌的怒涛中，我们仍旧能把握自己生命的航船，准确驶向远方的港湾；相信自己，即使在山穷水尽疑无路的境地，我们仍旧可以开启柳暗花明又一村的新门。“走自己的路，让别人去说吧！”但丁这句话，不正告诉我们：要相信自己。人生风雨兼程，成功与失败同在，积极与消极共处，无论悲喜伤痛，都要坚守自己、相信自己，只有相信自己，方能在这信息高速发展的今天，准确地点击自己辉煌灿烂的明天之网页。

Believe in ourselves, we can set up a monument, in the journey of life. Believe in ourselves, even in the stormy waves, we can still grasp the ship of our lives, and sail to the harbor in the distance accurately; believe in ourselves, even in the situation where there is no way out of poverty, we can still open a new gate of another village. "Go your own way and let others talk!" Dante's words, not exactly tell us: to believe in yourself. In this era of rapid development of information, you can accurately click on your brilliant tomorrow's web page.

相信自己，并不意味着排斥别人。相反，相信自己，仍需要听取别人的意见。波兰不是有句谚语：“常问路的人不会迷失方向。”

Believing in yourself doesn't mean rejecting others. On the contrary, to believe in yourself, you still need to listen to others' opinions. Poland is not a proverb: "those who ask the way often do not lose their way."

漆黑的海上，海轮不仅要遵循罗盘的方向，还需海上灯塔的导航。人生亦如此，没有谁可以一意孤行地走向成功的巅峰，他人的意见一如登山的拐杖，支撑着你前行的脚步。

In the dark sea, the ship not only needs to follow the direction of the compass, but also needs the navigation of the lighthouse. The same is true of life. No one can walk to the top of success. The opinions of others are like the crutches of mountaineering, supporting your progress.

唐太宗虚怀若谷，善于纳谏，终成一代名君。

Emperor Taizong of the Tang Dynasty was vain, good at receiving advice and eventually became a famous King.

齐王接受邹忌的进谏，听取群臣吏民的意见，于是有“此所谓战胜于朝廷”的美谈。

The king of Qi accepted the advice of zouji and listened to the opinions of the officials and the people, so there was a beautiful talk of "this so-called victory in the court".

孙中山之所以提出建设三峡的设想，岂不是善于听取别人意见的结果？

Isn't Sun Yat-sen good at listening to others' opinions when he put forward the idea of building the Three Gorges?

听取别人的意见，方能集思广益，创造出缤纷灿烂的辉煌。

Only by listening to other people's opinions can we gather ideas and create brilliant brilliance.

当然，听取别人的意见，绝非相信一切人，相信一切和怀疑一切人其错误是一样的。应当耐心地听取他人的意见，认真考虑指责你的人是否有理，有则改之，无则加勉。

Of course, to listen to others' opinions is not to believe in everyone. To believe in everything is the same as to doubt everyone's mistakes. You should listen to others' opinions patiently, and seriously consider whether the person who accuses you is reasonable. If there is one, change it. If not, encourage it.

人生如秋风吹皱悠悠岁月，飘落几朵愁怅，几段感叹，行走在星转斗移的人生之旅，切勿一意孤行，也勿相信一切人，相信自己，也能听取别人的意见，这才是风雨人生路，逍遥任我行的法宝。

Life is like the autumn wind wrinkling the years, falling a few sorrows and sighs. When walking on the life journey of star turning and fighting, don't act on your own, don't believe in everyone, believe in yourself, and listen to others' opinions. This is the magic weapon of wind and rain life and free and easy.

相信自己，坐观庭前花开花落，闲看天上云卷云舒。

Believe in yourself, sit and watch the flowers bloom and fall in front of the court, and watch the clouds in the sky.

听取别人的意见，坎坷人生道，多一份坦荡胸怀。

Listen to other people's opinions, rough life, more open mind.

相信自己，听取别人，方能在荣荣枯枯的岁月栈道上，一路奔放，一马平川。

Only when you believe in yourself and listen to others can you go all the way on the plank road of glorious and withered years.