感谢你的对手

——致甜甜同学的一封信

——A letter to Tiantian

甜甜同学：

Sweet students:

你好！你信里讲述的就是曾经的我，而且我比你还激烈的表现了自己的抗争。但当我重新梳理那段心情，我发现是因为不懂身边对手的价值而让自己走偏，遭遇到挫折。

Hello! Your letter is about who I used to be, and I'm fiercer than you to show my resistance. But when I reorganized that mood, I found that I was biased and suffered setbacks because I didn't understand the value of my opponents.

成长中的我们奔跑着，是为了追赶对手，为了不被落下；生活中的我们在乎名次，看中评价，是为了不让对手说你是一个纸上谈兵的弱者。这样有追有赶、有风有浪的生活成了我们喜怒哀乐的缘由——竞争的压力。

Growing up, we are running to catch up with our opponents, so as not to be left behind. In life, we care about ranking and evaluation, so as not to let our opponents say that you are a weak man on paper. Such a life of chasing and catching up with wind and waves has become the cause of our happiness, anger and sorrow - the pressure of competition.

我们的生活正因为有了对手才不会像白开水一样平淡无味，而变得五彩斑斓，因为有了对手我们才不像培植的鲜花一样孱弱纤瘦，而变得越来越坚强；正固为有了对手，我们才能享受真正的快活，认清真正的自我；正因为有了对手，生活的图画才会流光溢彩，生活的琴弦才会奏出欢快的乐章。

Our life is just because we have an opponent, we will not be as insipid as boiled water, but become colorful. Because we have an opponent, we will not be as weak and thin as cultivated flowers, and become more and more strong. Because we have an opponent, we can enjoy the real happiness and recognize the real self. Because we have an opponent, the picture of life will be full of color and life will be full of color Only the strings of a piano can play a happy movement.

亲爱的甜甜同学，我想告诉你：

Dear sweetie, I want to tell you:

因为竞争中有胜也有输，有起也有落．如果你把对手当成朋友，心里就会坦荡。失败的你敢于奋起直追，迎头赶上；而成功的你也会为下次的独占鳌头而努力拼搏。有了对手，哪怕荆棘丛生，你也敢走下去。失败培养了你的忍耐力，困难磨出了你的意志力，对手会使你学会乘风接浪而无丝毫恐惧，对手迫使你越来越勇敢地接受暴风雨的洗礼，“让暴风雨来得更猛烈些吧”会成为你的心声，因为你想磨炼自己。

Because there are winners and losers in the competition, and there are ups and downs. If you regard your competitors as friends, you will be magnanimous. If you fail, you dare to catch up, and if you succeed, you will strive for the next time. With an opponent, you dare to go even though there are many thorns. Failure cultivates your endurance, difficulties sharpen your willpower, opponents will make you learn to ride the wind and catch the waves without any fear, opponents will force you to accept the baptism of the storm more and more bravely, "let the storm come more fiercer" will become your voice, because you want to hone yourself.

不要逃避对手，也不要埋怨对手，敞开你宽广的胸襟友好地说：感谢你，我的对手！

Don't run away from your opponents, and don't blame them. Open your broad mind and say friendly: Thank you, my opponent!

如果你回避对手，就会失去一次尝试的机会，没有承担风险的勇气，永远不会有壮丽的人生；如果你埋怨对手，就会使你的心胸狭窄．没有容纳百川的胸怀，永远不会有辉煌的成功。只有微笑着面对生命中的所有对手，人生才会越来越有勇气。

If you avoid your opponent, you will lose an opportunity to try. If you don't have the courage to take risks, you will never have a magnificent life. If you complain about your opponent, you will have a narrow mind. If you don't have a broad mind, you will never have a brilliant success. Only by smiling at all the opponents in life, life will be more and more courageous.

在成长的征途中，对手是同行者，是挑战者，是激励者。

In the journey of growth, the opponent is the same walker, the challenger and the motivator.

甜甜同学，感谢你的对手吧，失去了对手会失去很多人生的精彩。

Sweet classmate, thank you for your opponent. If you lose your opponent, you will lose a lot of wonderful life.

一个关心你的同学

A classmate who cares about you