善待他人

什么叫好人？北大的教授季羡林说，好人就是想到别人的时候比想到自己的时候稍微多一点。后来，北大的教授、曾获国家最高科技奖的王选认为季先生这个要求太高了，他说，好人就是想到别人的时候和想到自己的时候一样多。

What is a good man? Ji Xianlin, a professor at Peking University, said that good people think of others a little more than they think of themselves. Later, Wang Xuan, a professor at Peking University who has won the state's highest science and technology award, thought Mr. Ji was too demanding. He said that good people think of others as much as they think of themselves.

在19世纪中叶的一个冬季里，有一个少年流浪到了美国南加州的沃尔森小镇，在那里，善良的杰克逊镇长收留了这个少年。

One winter in the middle of the 19th century, a young man wandered to the small town of Walson in Southern California, where the good mayor of Jackson took him in.

冬季的小镇雨雪交加，镇长杰克逊家花圃旁的那条小道变得泥泞不堪，行人纷纷改道穿花圃而过，弄得里面一片狼藉。看到这些，被镇长收留下的少年心里很不忍，因此他便冒着雨雪看护花圃，让行人仍从那条泥泞的小路上走过。此时，镇长挑来了一担炉渣，将那条小路铺好了，于是行人就不再从花圃中穿行了。镇长对少年说：“关照别人不就是关照自己么！”

In winter, the path beside the garden of Jackson's family, the mayor of the town, became muddy with rain and snow. Pedestrians changed their ways and passed through the garden, making it a mess. Seeing this, the young man who was accepted by the mayor was very impatient, so he risked the rain and snow to look after the flower bed and let the pedestrians still walk through the muddy path. At this time, the mayor picked up a load of slag and paved the path, so the pedestrians no longer walked through the garden. The mayor said to the young man, "to care for others is to care for yourself."

“关照别人不就是关照自己么！”这虽是普普通通的一句话，却让少年的心灵受到很大震撼和启迪。他就此悟出：关照别人虽然也需要付出，但同样能得到收获。镇长的一句话，成为这个少年终生享用不尽的巨大财富，他后来成了石油大王，他就是哈默。

"To care for others is to care for yourself." Although this is a common sentence, it has shocked and enlightened the hearts of young people. He realized that caring for others needs to be paid, but it can also gain. As the mayor said, he became the great wealth that the young man could not enjoy all his life. Later, he became the king of oil. He was hammer.

帮助别人，别人会感激你。善待别人就是善待自己。从在公交车上让座开始，你会觉得你的确很有风度，你会对别人给你的感谢的目光上瘾。和善，友爱，热情，真诚，特别是在人有困难的时候，多帮助别人，别人会感激你的，认为你善意的，是位好处的人。善待，一个很简单的字眼，但要每个人都做到却是一件不简单的事！

Help others, others will appreciate you. To be kind to others is to be kind to yourself. From giving up your seat on the bus, you will feel that you are really elegant, and you will be addicted to the eyes of others who give you thanks. Kindness, fraternity, enthusiasm, sincerity, especially when people have difficulties, help others more, others will appreciate you, think you are kind, is a good person. Kindness is a very simple word, but it's not easy for everyone to do it!

不过，只要你拥有一颗赤子之心，怀着幸福、感恩的心态去善待别人，那么这也就不是那么难的事了！

However, as long as you have a childlike heart, with a happy, grateful attitude to treat others, then this is not so difficult!

如果每个人都是这样想的，那么这个世界将没有仇恨、战火、争吵、互相残杀、手足相残了……一个人最伤心的事情无过于良心的死灰。

If everyone thinks this way, then there will be no hatred, war, quarrel, killing each other, brothers and legs The saddest thing for a man is nothing more than the ashes of conscience.