家长间攀比对孩子造成的伤害 The Hurt on Children Between Parents’ Comparison

When we are small, we met this situation all the time, while our parents were talking to their friends, suddenly they called us to show our talent in front of their friends. This is very awkward situation to every child, they hate to show in front of parents’ friends, but they can’t resist what the parents tell them to do. The parents’ purpose is so obvious, they want to show off their children to their friends,

so they can have face. All the parents ignore the negative effect on their children, all the children hate to do it, they have their dignity, they don’t like to be someone’s toy, so the children will become rebel. Parents should not take their children as the thing to show off, they will have pressure, they need to be respected. It hurts the children’s hearts, parents should show more respect to their children, let them have more freedom.

当我们小的时候，我们会不断遇到这样的情形，当我们的父母和朋友聊天的时候，突然间他们叫我们在他们的朋友面前表演才艺。这对每个孩子来说是很尴尬的情形，他们讨厌在父母的朋友面前表演，但是又不能抵抗父母叫他们做的。父母的目的很明显，他们想要在他们的朋友面前炫耀孩子，因此他们会有面子。所有的父母都忽视了对孩子造成的消极影响，他们不想要成为某人的玩具，所以孩子会变得反叛。父母不应该把孩子当成炫耀的资本，他们会有压力，需要被尊重。这伤害了孩子的心灵，父母应该多尊重孩子，让他们有更多的自由。