Olympic volunteers are now brushing up on their etiquette and so am I. In a Beijing university classroom last week I joined 200 students who were studying the dos and don'ts of dealing with foreigners.
I learnt a few lessons myself.
"OK guys, what are the three 'A' principles in social communications?" asked the young instructor. There was a pause in the lecture hall. The words Acceptance, Appreciation, and Admiration were flashed up on an overhead projector.
It's common sense stuff, the sort of civility my mother taught me when I was 10. But I realized these fundamental principles of being a decent human are often overshadowed by the mountain of useless information I've collected in the 30 years since.
Olympic organizers want to ensure the 100,000-strong army of volunteers is sensitive to the needs of visitors and act in the nicest, possible way. So they are getting down to basics.
"When you are talking with people from Western countries, what eight topics should be avoided?" the lecturer asked.
I wondered myself.
"Age, marital status, salary, experience, address, personal life, religious belief, politics and opinion about other people."
I do believe that about covers everything. But if I avoided all these topics, I would never ever have an argument. In fact, I'd probably not bother even talking.
I keep reminding my Chinese friends that the West thrives on social conflict. In my beloved field of journalism, if it bleeds, it leads. If the newspaper only had good news, nobody would buy it and I'd be out of a job.
When I first heard the term "harmonious society" I thought it was the title of a book, maybe an old Chinese fairytale.
"Nice and polite" was something I had to do when I'd visit my dear old late grandmother.
I can't remember the specific details but do remember feeling nice and light every time I was with her. Whenever I'd talk about drama or politics, she would say: "Oh well" and then change the conversation back to something more refreshing.
As I get older, I understand my grandmother's tact. Why waste precious time feeling troubled and anxious? Why take matters so seriously? Why not wear life like a loose garment and focus on the roses and not the thorns?
Later in the lecture, the subject of watching sports was discussed. "No matter if we win or lose, we should talk politely, wear suitable clothing, be warm and generous, don't damage property and keep the place clean."
I agree with the bit about property damage and littering, but "warm and generous" and "talking nicely" at a footy game?
Not yelling at the umpire when he's 110 percent wrong? Not laughing at opposing fans when their multi-million-dollar star drops the ball?
There are some etiquette issues I have to draw the line.
默多克听证会 邓文迪红了
韩国健身者练操震动大楼摇摆10分钟
日本反核情绪高涨 首相宣布无核目标
写在美国狗证上面的话 感动你到流泪
美研制“社交X光”眼镜 助你“看透”人心
美加州立法要求学校开同性恋历史课
酒精有致癌性 专家建议最好滴酒不沾
俄罗斯女孩脱衣运动为普京大选造势
美专家:网瘾少年大脑容易萎缩
最浪漫的爱情故事:送的不是报纸,是爱情
传媒大亨默多克就窃听事件发表公开道歉信全文
便宜好吃又营养的水果排行
“阿特兰蒂斯”最后之旅结束 返回地球
美国偶像评委皮尔斯摩根卷入窃听事件
默多克四面楚歌 传媒帝国或遭瓦解
让你百分百身临其境的4D电影
纽约十大绰号盘点:大都会还是大苹果 ?
真我风采:我就是我
各位名人对幸福的阐述
假小子,娘娘腔更可能成同性恋
Facebook创始人等16富豪签捐赠誓言
研究:男人更喜欢拥抱和爱抚
好睡眠:国外酒店推出“防鼾客房”
和父母一起吃饭的青少年更健康
公民韩寒:爱情里10件如果的事
英国三成员工是装病 编理由请病假
“绯闻女孩”莉顿·梅斯特诉母亲侵吞弟弟医药费
超搞的句子翻译 喜感十足
如果偶遇UFO该怎么办?
杭州:中国最幸福的城市
不限 |
英语教案 |
英语课件 |
英语试题 |
不限 |
不限 |
上册 |
下册 |
不限 |