More than 30 years ago, when I took my first job in New York City,
I found myself working with a number of young women.
Some I got to know just in passing, but others gradually became my friends.
Today, six of these women remain an important part of my life.
They are more than simply friends, more even than close friends.
They are old friends, as indispensable as sunshine and more dear to me than ever.
These people share a long-standing history with me.
In fact, old friends are a lot like promises.
They put reliability into the uncertainty of life
and establish a reassuring link between the past, present,and future.
The attachment between friends who have known each other for many years is bound to be complex.
On occasion we are exceedingly close, and at other times one or both of us invariably step back.
Ebb and flow. Thick and thin.
How smoothly and gently we negotiate these hills and valleys
has everything to do with how well the friendship ages.
Sometimes events intervene in a way that requires us to rework the term of a relationship.
A friend starts a second career, lets say, and suddenly has less free time.
Another remarries,adding someone new to the equation.
Talk honestly and listen to each other to find out if the others needs are being met.
Renegotiating pays full tribute to lifes inevitable changes
and says that we deem our friendships worthy of preserving.
Old friends are familiar with the layers of our lives.
They have been there in the gloom and the glory.
Even so, theres always room to know more about another person.
Of course, self-disclosure can make even old friends more vulnerable, so go slowly:
Confiding can open new doors, but only if we knock first.
Time is the prime commodity between old friends
by this I mean the time spent doing things together.
Whether its face to face over a cup of coffee,
side by side while jogging, ear to ear over the phone, or via email and letters,
dont let too much time go by without sharing your thoughts with each other.
长相出众好找工作?研究:颜值高的人找这类工作会受歧视
国际英语资讯:Interview: APEC has role to play in complex trading environments, says executive director
体坛英语资讯:OSullivan, Ding Junhui eliminated at first round of World Snooker International Championsh
国际英语资讯:Kenyas Kenyatta wins repeat presidential poll, pledges to stick to rule of law
国际英语资讯:Schoolboys arrested in Yorkshire on suspicion of terrorism offences
10月资讯热词汇总
关于哈里王子的恋情,英国还拍了个记录片
国际英语资讯:Spate of deaths in Ecuador from drinking methanol rises to 15
张培基英译散文赏析之《最后一圈 》
我国发布国家公园发展及管理总体方案
国际英语资讯:Kenyas Odinga dismisses repeat election results
保罗•沃克诉讼案完结!女儿撤诉保时捷公司
Remittance, payment 和 pay 的区别
科学家找到决定怀孕成功的关键基因
国内英语资讯:Chinese, Russian PMs meet in Beijing on ties
6000片树叶做出美裙 原来他们是这么做到的!
体坛英语资讯:Mandli wins FEI World Cup jumping title
英语中可数名词的用法测验
国内首次! 云南民族大学招瑜伽方向硕士!
美国2岁男童竟意外枪杀熟睡的父亲
国内英语资讯:Chinese political advisors study spirit of CPC National Congress
国内英语资讯:Opening up of China means win-win cooperation for world: President Xi
国际英语资讯:UN chief asks Security Council to support Sahel force
国际英语资讯:Chinese tourism to Italy a growing phenomenon, magazine says
国内英语资讯:Top CPC leaders reaffirm mission at Partys birthplace
2017下半年英语四级作文模板:在宿舍里养宠物
如何为求职面试做准备?
史泰龙客串《我们这一天》,网友惊呼太棒啦
中国花瓶以天价拍出 买家出价翻1万多倍拍走
国际英语资讯:Maehara resigns over collapse of Japans main opposition party
| 不限 |
| 英语教案 |
| 英语课件 |
| 英语试题 |
| 不限 |
| 不限 |
| 上册 |
| 下册 |
| 不限 |