More than 30 years ago, when I took my first job in New York City,
I found myself working with a number of young women.
Some I got to know just in passing, but others gradually became my friends.
Today, six of these women remain an important part of my life.
They are more than simply friends, more even than close friends.
They are old friends, as indispensable as sunshine and more dear to me than ever.
These people share a long-standing history with me.
In fact, old friends are a lot like promises.
They put reliability into the uncertainty of life
and establish a reassuring link between the past, present,and future.
The attachment between friends who have known each other for many years is bound to be complex.
On occasion we are exceedingly close, and at other times one or both of us invariably step back.
Ebb and flow. Thick and thin.
How smoothly and gently we negotiate these hills and valleys
has everything to do with how well the friendship ages.
Sometimes events intervene in a way that requires us to rework the term of a relationship.
A friend starts a second career, lets say, and suddenly has less free time.
Another remarries,adding someone new to the equation.
Talk honestly and listen to each other to find out if the others needs are being met.
Renegotiating pays full tribute to lifes inevitable changes
and says that we deem our friendships worthy of preserving.
Old friends are familiar with the layers of our lives.
They have been there in the gloom and the glory.
Even so, theres always room to know more about another person.
Of course, self-disclosure can make even old friends more vulnerable, so go slowly:
Confiding can open new doors, but only if we knock first.
Time is the prime commodity between old friends
by this I mean the time spent doing things together.
Whether its face to face over a cup of coffee,
side by side while jogging, ear to ear over the phone, or via email and letters,
dont let too much time go by without sharing your thoughts with each other.
名师讲解初三学生失分率最高的英语题
为中考英语复习献计
中考英语连词的用法总结
中考英语连词or与and so与such比较
精品推荐:初中成对英语短语汇总
表示上下方位的介词总结
英语介词使用口诀 简单易懂
易使我们误入陷阱的英语单词
中考名师指导:英语非谓语动词如何攻克
中考英语指导:不可缺少的宾语补足语
中考英语词汇:15句圣诞节祝福语集萃
中考名师:没钱时必备26句英语
名师指导之三:被动语态的使用
名师指导之二:被动语态的特殊形式
名师总结:中考英语非谓语动词过关必知
中考英语基序数词以及连字符的复习
中考英语词汇“美味水果”大聚会
名师谈中考英语动词正确理解与使用:怎样学好情态动词
中考名师:没钱时必备26句英语
英语中相关连词总结
初三英语句型转换模拟训练
中考英语中无处不在的“that”妙用
名师指点:中考英语使用There be句型要注意的问题
中考英语常见错误B系列2
名师指点:多姿多彩的反意疑问句
中考英语近义动词辨析专项训练及答案 点击下载
名师指导之一:被动语态的时态
中学英语中的“非常”系列词语专讲
初中英语18种特殊的反意疑问句归纳分析
英语作文么样写才能拿高分
| 不限 |
| 英语教案 |
| 英语课件 |
| 英语试题 |
| 不限 |
| 不限 |
| 上册 |
| 下册 |
| 不限 |