给王虹同学的一封信3

王虹同学：你好！

Wang Hong: Hello!

你的来信我已经看到，知道了你因为父母的阻拦而没有参加上同学的生日party，为此你很是苦恼。你此时此刻的心情，知心姐姐能够体会得到，下面我就来谈谈我的一点想法，希望你能从苦恼的心境中解脱出来，变得快乐。

I've read your letter, and I know that you didn't attend the birthday party of your classmates because of your parents' obstruction, so you are very distressed. Your mood at this moment can be realized by the bosom sister. Now I'll talk about my thoughts. I hope you can get rid of the distressed mood and become happy.

其实你所遇到的事情不仅仅是你一个人，有很多同学都向我来过信，诉说他们心中的苦恼。我们不妨先把这种苦恼放在一边，分析一下其中的原因。爸爸妈妈之所以不让你去，一是因为时间太晚，你的安全成了他们心中的牵挂；二是举行生日party，怕你们当中掺杂着他们心中所谓的“差生”，会给你带来不良方面的影响；三是怕你们从中沾染不良的社会风气，从小就开始礼尚往来。从以上三方面原因来讲，你的爸爸妈妈是非常爱你的。

In fact, what you encounter is not just you alone. Many students have sent letters to me to tell their troubles. Let's put aside this kind of distress and analyze the reasons. The reason why mom and Dad don't let you go is that, first, it's too late, your safety has become a concern in their hearts; second, they hold birthday parties, for fear that the so-called "poor students" in their hearts will bring you bad influence; third, they are afraid that you will get bad social atmosphere from it, and start courteous exchanges from an early age. From the above three reasons, your parents love you very much.

至于你后来遭到某些同学们的冷漠，你大可不必放在心上，最好以一种非常平和的态度去面对他们。那些找你过生日的好朋友，你应该找他们去谈一谈，委婉的说说你没去的原因。同时能不能把你的苦恼和想法说给你的班主任老师，看她（他）怎么看这件事情。可以让老师为这一主题内容召开一次班会，讨论如何给同学过生日更有意义。我想班会一定会开得很成功，到那时，你的这种苦恼一定会烟消云散的。

As for the indifference of some students, you don't have to pay attention to it. You'd better face them with a very peaceful attitude. Those good friends who are looking for your birthday, you should talk to them about the reason why you didn't go. At the same time, can you tell your troubles and thoughts to your head teacher and see how she (he) thinks about it. The teacher can hold a class meeting for this topic to discuss how to give students a more meaningful birthday. I think the class meeting will be very successful. At that time, your troubles will disappear.

好吧，就说到这里。最后祝王虹同学学习进步，愉快生活每一天！

Well, that's it. Finally, I wish Wang Hong progress in study and a happy life every day!

知心姐姐

Agony Aunt