学过课文《乌塔》,我深有感触。乌塔是一个和我们差不多大的女孩,可是她却能一个人游玩欧洲的许多国家。
After learning the text "Wuta", I feel deeply. Uta is a girl about our age, but she can play many countries in Europe by herself.
从乌塔身上,我看到了外国孩子的独立能力特别强。由此,我想到了我们中国孩子,从小一直依靠爸爸妈妈,做一些稍微危险的事,父母就不放心了,他们总是把我们保护的很好。正因为这样,我们就养成一种依赖父母的心理,碰到一些不会做的事,会让父母来做,这样就少了我们亲身体会的机会。而外国父母对孩子却十分放心,从小让他们自己出去玩,遇到困难让他们自己解决,还很放心让孩子独自去外国旅游。外国父母对孩子会有一定的要求,让孩子自己去争取胜利,而中国的父母总是把我们安排得十分细致。
From UTA, I can see that foreign children have a strong ability of independence. From this, I think of our Chinese children. Since childhood, they have always relied on their parents to do something slightly dangerous. Their parents are not at ease. They always protect us very well. Just because of this, we will develop a kind of psychology of relying on our parents. When we encounter something that we can't do, we will let our parents do it, so that we will have less chance to experience it personally. However, foreign parents are very reassured about their children. When they were young, they let them go out to play by themselves. When they encountered difficulties, they let them solve them by themselves. They are also very reassured that they let their children travel to foreign countries alone. Foreign parents will have certain requirements for their children to strive for victory by themselves, while Chinese parents always arrange us very carefully.
同样是父母,同样是爱我们的人,为什么会有不同的结果呢?我想:我们中国的教育方法是应该改一改了。我们虽然不能很自由的成长,但可以学习乌塔的独立能力,自己的事情自己做。
Why do parents and people who love us have different results? I think: our education method in China should be changed. Although we can't grow freely, we can learn from UTA's independent ability and do our own things.