Ask any man who has been in a relationship and he is sure to tell you that more than the expensive dates and costly gifts,the small gestures and little things made all the difference. To sustain any relationship you don’t need a pocket full of money. What you need is a heart full of love and a brain filled with ideas to woo and be good to her. Keeping this notion in mind, here is the low-down of all the little things that count in a relationship.
如果去问任何一个在恋爱中的男人,他会很肯定的告诉你,真正维系关系的是一些小手势和细节,而不是那些花费昂贵的约会和礼物。要维系一段感情并不需要有大量的金钱。真正需要的是你有一颗充满爱的心,脑海中时时能蹦跶出如何对女友好的想法。记住这一点,下面是列举出在感情中需要注意的细节。
1. A good-morning / good-night text
1.一个早安/晚安的短信
You can make your girl’s day by sending her a lovie-dovie ‘good morning’ text. Nothing makes a girl happier than waking up to a lovely message that wishes her a great day ahead. In case you missed the opportunity to text her in the morning, don’t worry. Send her a good night text and make sure to tuck her in and kiss her good night. She will sleep with the biggest smile on her face and will surely dream of you all night.
如果发一个窝心“早安”的短信给女友,她的一天都会过的很开心。用一个可爱的短信叫醒女友让她有个美好的一天是一件无比幸福的事情。如果你错过了早晨发短信的机会,别担心,发个晚安给她,给她一个吻。她会面带笑意的睡觉,绝对会梦到你。
2. Drop her home safely
2.要把她安全的送回家中
When I make the above point I don't expect you to become her personal chauffeur. What you are expected to be is gentleman who drops his girl home after a date or at least offers to do so. This in no way suggests she cannot go alone, or that you alone can protect her. Simply put, it is a kind and chivalrous thing to do and so you must do it.
在写这一点的时候,我并不期盼你成为她的私人司机。你需要做的是在约会之后绅士地送女友回家或至少要提出这一点。这并不是说她绝对不能自己走,或者你一个人绝对能保护她。这只是一个很友善的和绅士的行为,所以你必须要做。
3. Be her confidante
3.成为她的知己
One of the most precious facets of a relationship is the ability to share and talk random stuff. Listen and accept your partner’s secrets (be it the heavy and serious ones or the outright dumb and funny ones) and become her confidante. In turn, do make it a point to share yours. By doing so, you will open up the channel of communication and facilitate free-talk and the fostering of trust.
恋爱中最珍贵的一点是能够随心所欲地分享和交谈。聆听,保守恋人的秘密(无论是严肃认真的还是傻傻有趣的),成为她的知己。反过来,你也要去分享自己的秘密。这样就可以建立一个交流和自由对话的桥梁,进而有了信任。
4. Remember dates
4.记得重要的日子
Women have a huge problem with a man’s inability to remember dates. You must avoid pissing her off by making an attempt to remember the dates that matter. Store them in your phone calendar or stick post-its on your office desk if you must, but do not forget important dates!
男人总是不能记住重要的日子是女人们的一大烦恼。你必须要记住重要的日子,才能不让她失望。把这些日子存在手机的日历里,或者在办公桌上贴上便签,千万别忘了重要的日子!
5. Share your ambitions
5.分享你的志向
Opening up to your girl and letting her in on your ambitions and career plans makes her feel needed and important. So don’t shy away from discussing work with her. Ask her for suggestions and inputs and she might just surprise you with her ability to solve your work related problems.
向你的女朋友展示你的志向和工作计划,让她觉得她也是被需要的,她很重要。所以别害羞与她谈论工作的事情,问她一些建议,她解决相关工作问题的能力也许会让你大吃一惊。
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