How can I tell if someone is just using me?
我如何知道有人在利用我?
获得74.1k好评的回答@Derrick Chavez:
Definition: Give a false impression of one desire in hopes of receiving another.
定义:为了达到某种目的假装有另外一个目的。
Here is a scenario:
看下面这个情节:
The girl
女孩
1.She wants a relationship.
1.想恋爱。
2.She wants deep connection.
2.想深入交往
3.She cares for her potential parnter in many ways.
3.在很多方面都在乎未来的男朋友。
On the other hand,
相反,
The guy
男孩
1.The guy pretends to want a relationship.
1.这个男孩假装想谈恋爱。
2.He pretends to care deeply for the girl.
2.他假装很在乎那个女孩。
3.He truly and only desires the sexual activity. He convinces the girl he wants more.
3.他真的只想发生关系,但说服女孩相信他不只是想发生关系。
4.He deceives, lies, and cheats.
4.他蒙蔽你、对你说谎、欺骗你。
To use someone means to deceive them, to lie, and to cheat in hopes of receiving something in return.
利用别人就意味着蒙蔽、说谎、欺骗,只是为了达到某种目的。
To answer your question:
现在回答你的问题:
1.Are their actions aligned with their words?
1.他们言行是否一致?
2.Are their stories and words untrue?
2.他们的故事和话是否虚假?
3.Are they not meeting your needs directly?
3.他们是不是不会直接满足你的要求?
These are signs he is using you for something else.
以上迹象就表明他们是在为某种目的利用你。
获得264好评的回答@Ovidiu Fulea:
1.See what happens when you refuse them on multiple occasions
1.看看各种情况下你拒绝他们会怎样。
2.Ask something of them as well, see if they refuse or accept
2.也向他们提出一些请求,看看他们拒绝还是接受。
In all of the above, look at their reaction, see if they care or that you did that for them or not, or if they were annoyed that you couldn’t do it.
在上述所有情况下观察他们的反应,看看他们是否在乎你帮不帮他们的忙,或者你做不到时他们是否会生气。
Also, think. How often do they ask you of things? Wold you rather do something else instead of helping them? When you see that person, are you annoyed?
而且你要思考一下,他们多久向你提一次要求?你宁愿做点别的也不愿意帮助他们吗?你见到这个人会生气吗?
获得411好评的回答@Maureen Sharkey:
They always take, always ask, and never do the same back to you.
他们总是索取,总是要求,却从未给你回报。
They may be nice, polite, and nice to be around. But you will never ever get the same from them. Also, it may be the only time you hear from them or see them is when they want something.
他们可能人很好,有礼貌,很好相处,但你从他们那里永远得不到回报。而且可能只有当他们有要求时才会跟你说话或见面。
Those are some of the indications.
以上都是暗示。
下一篇: 马斯克的SpaceX测试了最新的飞船火箭
国内英语资讯:Snow to sweep north China, rain in south
涨知识!关于国际妇女节你需要了解这些事
体坛英语资讯:Olympic champion Chalmers wins 100m freestyle at Australian swimming championship
国内英语资讯:China Focus: Xi expects smooth DPRK-ROK summit, DPRK-U.S. dialogue
国内英语资讯:Cambodian analysts say reform, opening-up give tremendous impetus for Chinas success
国内英语资讯:Xi congratulates Nepalese president on taking office for new term
哪些生活习惯能彻底改变你
为什么女性比男性更易得哮喘
国内英语资讯:Chinese lanterns light up streets of Dinant in southern Belgium
体坛英语资讯:Chinese womens football team lost to Norway with improved performance
国内英语资讯:Mainland says US Taiwan Travel Act a wrong signal
体坛英语资讯:Chinas Su Bingtian makes history to win mens 60m silver
国内英语资讯:B&R Initiative brings opportunities to participants: FM
国内英语资讯:China Focus: Profits gain as local SOEs deepen reform
体坛英语资讯:Neymar undergoes successful foot surgery
国内英语资讯:China to develop micro rockets, aiming at huge market
国内英语资讯:Across China: Chinas female motorcyclists seek speed and freedom on the road
国内英语资讯:Economic Watch: Chinese steel makers post fat profits amid capacity cuts
国内英语资讯:China hopes to constructively address trade disputes with America: FM
国内英语资讯:Across China: Eagle-eyed banknote checker minimizes losses for rural people
国内英语资讯:South Chinas Guilin gets new high-speed train station
体坛英语资讯:China to focus on defense against Norway in Algarve Cup
国内英语资讯:Across China: Rural tourism draws villagers back to thrive
国内英语资讯:Chinas courts to continue competence-centered judge selection reform
国内英语资讯:New longer Fuxing bullet train being tested in China
《请以你的名字呼唤我》要拍续集?可把我激动坏了
留学在外 情以食牵
为什么猫咪喜欢贴着你?原因震惊到我了
研究揭示为什么大熊猫爱吃竹子
国内英语资讯:China launches land exploration satellite