Were pushing our kids to get good grades, take SAT preparatory courses and build resumes so they can get into the college of our first choice.
主干：Were pushing our kids to...
主句部分的三个并列的动词不定式(to get..., take... and build...)作宾语our kids的补语。so引导目的状语从句，说明我们逼迫孩子做种种事情的目的。
译文：我们逼孩子考高分、参加SAT考前辅导班、写简历，从而能让他们进入我们首选的学校。